Wednesday, September 10, 2008

"You are everything I never knew I always wanted."

I was watching "Fools Rush In" on TBS a few days ago. If nothing else, I love that network for constantly playing forgotten classics. This movie is a favorite of mine. A New York WASP and a feisty Latina... perfection!

It got me thinking a lot about my own life. How, exactly three years ago today, I was lying poolside at the Ritz thinking I had my whole life figured out. And how yesterday, I was standing on Madison Avenue with a big pink umbrella over my head and I didn't have a clue.

But then again, isn't that the beauty of it all? I always say I love surprises. I could tell you exactly where I would be today if I had gone along with the original plan. Now, I can't tell you where I'll be next week. Because I really don't know.

I love this movie because it's all about having faith and believing in signs, and that is who I am and who I've always been. I'm hopeful. I'm optimistic. I order a plate of french fries only to eat the 15 perfect-looking ones. I stick my tongue out at myself when I look in the mirror. I smile at strangers. I don't believe that I can change the world, but I do think I can make my corner of it a little bit brighter. I can organize and plan all I want, but the unexpected is inevitable.

If you haven't seen the movie, I highly recommend it. It's thought-provoking. I'm not sure why it was so panned. It's no Titanic but it sends a good message.

I'm sorry, Paul. I don't believe in Yesterday. I believe in Today.

9 comments:

Mrs. Newlywed said...

You always have the most insightful posts...

Prep-E Girl said...

Just Saturday, I told DF that "it's the not knowing in life that makes it exciting..."

-E

Kate said...

Love that movie!

Molly said...

I too, love that movie and you totally just made me think of it in a different way. Love your blog!

Michael said...

well stated, as always

suburban prep said...

That movie always brings a smile to my face because that is the movie hubby and I saw on the day we got engaged.

thepreppyprincess said...

Oh Miss Teddi...

What a wonderful post - wow. And what a fabulous film! It is cool to read that is what Suburban Prep and Hubby-to-be saw the day they got engaged...!

As always, just sublime.
tp

Anne-Toireasa said...

That movie had a surprisingly profound effect on me too. Also, the visual of you standing under your umbrella in a state of wonder is very relatable. I nominated you for a blog award - hope you're doing well :)!

Aire said...

Not to sound cheesy but that movie changed my life! I saw it the first weekend it came out years ago, and I've been a firm believer in fate and destiny ever since. I try and explain to people why they NEED to see this move, and sometimes they get it and most times they don't. Its nice see other people feel the same way! :)