Tonight at dinner, I laughed when a dear friend referred to me as 'glamorous'. I told her that I am anything but. She smiled and flicked her wrist as if to say, Oh Please.
The truth is that I know who I am. I don't think I'm beautiful or special. I don't have a killer body and I'm not cool. I'm also (if you couldn't tell) my own worst enemy and harshest critic.
I got to thinking that often times I am too hard on myself.
This is my favorite "glamour shot" of myself. I know what you're thinking. This photo is a DISASTER! My bra is showing, my hair is out of place, and I'm too busy doing "Thriller" to look at the camera. But, I like what I see here. It's one of my favorite photos of all time. Why? Because it's SO ME. A nice mess.
I look happy. And happiness is glamorous.
Sure, glamorous to some may be slathering their face with hundred dollar creams and falling asleep in their Pratesi sheets. (I use Clarins that I got from a blogging event and slumber in Nautica bedding.) But to me, this is it.
So, how about we meet halfway?
If you leave me a comment telling me why you think YOU'RE glamorous, I'll enter you in a JGIWC-exclusive giveaway to win the GLAMOROUS Dr. Perricone Cold Plasma Creme.
This creme retails for $150 and stops the ten signs of aging. Read more about it here. If you're interested in discounts, you can visit their blog.
We could all use a little ego boost every now and again.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
GLAMOUROUS (and a Perricone giveaway and discount!)
Posted by JGIWC at Wednesday, November 11, 2009
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If happiness = glamorous, then I'm glamorous. I'm probably the only person I know my age who has not had cosmetic surgery. Some would say, Lord she needs some work...that's okay with me, because I'm totally comfortable with myself! I'm a very happy person and love my life...totally! BTW, I have slept on Pratesi sheets for many years and there isn't much difference in those and sheets from Target (only that Pratesi sheets must be ironed--who needs that!)
I think I'm "glamorous" because I've learned to be comfortable with the kind of woman I am. I am fiercely loyal, supremely caring, and terribly loving. I am also overly sensitive, highly dramatic, and excessively passionate. I will defend a friend without a doubt in my mind. I am not afraid to bust a "white girl" move on the dance floor. I always go after what I want and work hard until I get it. If I see a dear friend, I'm inclined to leap up and give them a giant hug...even if we are in the middle of a high-class function. I almost never follow the rules when it comes to dating, and I believe "The One" will respect me for that. In short, I'm completely happy with being me...
I feel glamorous rolling out of bed throwing on a jacket and walking around the corner to get coffee in the morning. In my head I think to myself I am a disaster right now, however every bone in my body feels sexy and GLAMOROUS. When all the fun fussy things are stripped away and you still feel comfortable is glam.
I think I probably feel my most glamorous when I dress like myself ... my Ray Ban horn rim glasses, skinny jeans, a flannel shirt, old school converse, and a Madewell scarf.
I feel glamorous when I am in my work-out clothes and hubby still looks at me the same way he does if I spend hours getting ready to go out somewhere!
I feel glamorous because I'm learning the discipline and determination to take better care of my body and give myself a more healthful future. I've lost 25 lbs so far and I'm learning the dedication of a workout routine while still teaching myself to enjoy my life. When I look at that accomplishment, it doesn't matter how much left I have to lose or whatever -- I feel glamorous because of what I've already done!
Oh Teddi, as my friend, you know I too am one of my harshest critics. I didn't even feel "glamorous" at my wedding...but this is going to sound corny, I felt the MOST glamorous when walking out of Ted Gibson's in the Flatiron District for my first haircut (free, I might add) in NYC. I haven't felt that glamorous since. I spoke to Ted about that a month ago or so...
That is just the most beautiful picture of you! Bra showing and all...
I feel most glamorous when a boy I like goes in for the kids...what make you feel more sexy and beautiful?
i'm glamorous because i enjoy the small things in life. i live in the present, pay attention to detail and never miss a beat.
I believe I am glamorous because my mother passed on to me the four important rules. 1. Hair should always be clean. 2. Nails should always be polished. 3. Make-up should be removed every night, (no matter what your state) and finally 4. Maintain a healthy sex life for a naturual glow.....
I'm glamorous because my dog loves me. Sure I work a boring office job, drive a hyundai and eat the occasional bag of cheetos. But when I walk in the door every evening, my dog acts like I'm the coolest celebrity ever.
I love that photo of you! Is that dress from BCBG? I think I have the same one!
I think I'm glamorous because I can totally rock a pair of sweatpants with an updo:)
I think I'm glamorous when I'm schlepping to work in the big city of Chicago, coffee in hand, briefcase in the other. I realize that while I might not *look* or *feel* all that glam at the time, what I'm doing is what I dreamed of as a little girl, in the suburbs, watching movies about the glamorous lives of women in big cities.
I think I am glamorous when I can walk out of my apartment with dirty hair, my glasses on, my ugly 'busdriver' blue khakis, old lady moccasins, and some plain long sleeve shirt and walk into work not giving a damn about what I look like... to feel glamorous one has to feel completely secure with not only their inner self, but their outer self as well!
I just wanted to tell you that the photo of you is GORGEOUS!! I did not even notice what you called "flaws" until you pointed them out! WHat a beautiful picture. I can understand why it is your favorite!
I'm glamourous because I love myself, even on days like yesterday when I didn't feel too fabulous (woke up late, no shower, hair and eyebrows a mess). The woman in my life have taught me to be proud of who I am, especially on days when I'm feeling the weight of the world. Plus, I love being budget-chic and there's nothing more glamourous than that! xo
first of all I LOOOOVE that picture! I Swear when I first saw it I thought it was elizabeth hurley!!! You are glamorous teds, that dear friend is so smart ;) xo love you xo
you know when i feel glamours, when I pulling it all off- workout in the morning, crock pot full of dinner, leaving for work on time, coffee cup in hand, outfit on, hair done, lips glossed- I think I'm owning it and yes I pulled it off again. Nothing says glam like a confident woman who is sexy in her skin xo
I'm glamorous when I'm playing with an animal, walking around a bookstore, or volunteering in my community. These are the things that make me shine, I think.
Darling, I LOVE that picture of you! You look beautiful, and you look like a celebrity dancing the night away at an awards-show afterparty...tres glamorous! :-)
I feel most glamourous teaching my niece all the fun stuff about being a girl. There's nothing in comparison to the way a little girl can look up to you in awe when you're all dolled up and ready to go out. She makes me feel like I'm a celebrity when she asks if I'll help her with her hair, nails, etc. It's even better when she realizes it comes from the inside, too!
That picture is definitely glamorous!
I feel most glamorous when I am in heels. I don't often wear them to work because I work in a school, so when I do wear them it is special!
And my job is anything but glamorous yet I still LOVE it.
You are glowing in that photo! I love it. It's perfect!
I love candid shots like that!
I am glamorous because I shine from within. Whether I'm interviewing a golf pro, with media badge and cute golf outfit on, or twirling and leaping on stage in a pretty tutu and rockin' a dance performance, I feel glamorous because it's the attitude I choose. When it comes from within, there's no stopping any of us from shining and being glamorous. A pink sparkly tutu does help though :)
I feel the most glamorous right after a run. I used to be overweight and finally lost the weight and am amazed at what my body can do now!
I think I am glamorous because I am happy the way I am and have learned to love my body, with all it's imperfections. Some things that make me feel glamorous are small things like essie nail polish, heels, pearls, and little black dresses!
I'm glamorous because you're my friend. :)
Feeling glamorous is definitely a state of mind. Marilyn Monroe could "switch on" her Marilyn persona when she wanted to or she could go out unnoticed as Norma Jean. I can feel glamorous when I sit up straight, look people in the eyes, and smile just as easily as I can walk around with my head down and keep to myself. Being glamorous is a great benefit to being a woman!
I think I'm glamorous when I'm working out. Even though I'm not wearing makeup and my hair is a mess- I'm proud of the fact that I'm doing something good for myself.
This is going to sound weird but I feel glamorous when I wear sunglasses. It's that little bit of casual mystery that I think is glamorous!
i feel glamourous when i blow my hair out just because it's cold outside, but i spend the extra time even though i'm just going to curl up on the sofa with my boyfriend and my sweatpants, and a nice steaming mug of tea, and watch the latest chick flick. my boyfriend loves them even though he doesn't want anyone else to know!
This post is awesome! I loved your picture, your depiction on self-love, and reading all the comments posted about how women feel glamourous in their every day lives. Sure, I feel glamourous when I'm drinking wine with good friends right after a hard workout. It doesn't matter that I look slightly disheveled, but the endorphins paired with yummy wine and the best friends a girl could ask for make me feel untouchable!
Love this - I'm glamorous because I LOVE to find a great sale and turn that product into something extraordinary!!! ;)
xoxo
Courtney
Well, I particularly consider myself glamorous. I run on a really busy schedule so the word 'glamor' is not presently part of my vocabulary! But having Perricone sure would help with that. I put on makeup nearly every morning but rolling out of bed and not having to do my makeup would be ideal, but having nice skin is key... Perricone will help me be just a little more glamorous and quite frankly, that little boost will be enough for me!
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Well I think your totally glamorous! Wish I had a pick where I looked that fab! I'm 17 and i'm still experimenting with my makeup and trying to find whats right for me!! **On a slim budget!* But I think one thing that is glam about me is that I wear oversized (faux) pearl earrings wherever I go!!! Thanks so much!
I'd love to win this!! I've heard great things about Perricone and Cold Plasma and I feel like my skin is just getting worse and worse :( would love the opportunity to win and try out the great product for myself!
I would love to win this!!
I feel the most glamorous I'm really happy! Then I know that I'm radiating happiness and confidence to everyone around me :)
I feel glmorous because I recently quit smoking and not only does smoking age you, but I now realize how stinky it is!
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I'm glamorous because we are all beautiful in our own way!!
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I feel glamorous because I recently lost about 20 lbs just in time for the holidays!!
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I am glamorous because I walk with my head up and project the confidence that every woman should have. I man not be the best dressed or have a bikini-ready body, but the aura I project trumps the superficial. I hope I win this Perricone product...it would be the perfect accessory to my personal brand ;). Thanks for the giveaway!
I am glamorous because my honey tells me so. I can also see the love in my sons eye's and that makes me feel glamorous.
I'm glamorous because I'm not glamorous.
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