Last year, I set ten goals for myself on the first day of each month and gave myself until the last day to complete the list. Some were silly; some were serious. Some I accomplished and some I did not. I thought about doing it all again this year but I decided that 2013 is different than 2012, and in turn deserved something different. So I sat down with a bowl of Haagen Dazs Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough ice cream and wrote down the following "vows" for the new year.