jewish girl in wasp's clothing

Valenmines

2012-02-13T06:00:00.003-05:00

I renamed the holiday to fit the theme of Teddi Seven and Teddi Twenty. Good, right?

To me, this holiday has never been about being single or taken, but celebrating all the love in my life.

But a few presents never hurt anyone.

I surprised my family with lots of Jacques Torres chocolate and I'm seriously regretting not picking up some for myself. Think I'll have to head back this week for the chocolate covered cheerios.

I will be painting my nails Mod Square pink for the occasion.

I ended up getting this romper from my birthday wish list. Too cute for words.

What's better than a pink bra? I have loved Natori since college and am really enjoying their line for Target. Great price points and equal parts sexy and sweet.

This Comme des Garcons cardigan is the epitome of chic. It looks like she's wearing her boyfriend's sweater and I love, love, love it! That heart says it all.

Valenmines or Valenyours?

What's in JGIWC's gym bag?

2012-02-09T06:00:00.006-05:00

A questionable title, as I actually don't actually belong or go to a gym, but you get the picture.

And if not, here it is!

I LOVE my Lululemon DTB Duffle. Its compact size coupled with its ample space and pockets (labeled for phone, keys, tunes, etc!) is perfect for me. Oh, and it comes with a removable shoe bag that I actually use for my clothes post-workout. Those Lulu folks think of everything!

After many rides with rented shoes, I decided to break down and get my own pair. I bought mine at SoulCycle, but they're easily available online too. They are Shimano SPDSL with Look clips.

I actually have a bunch of these little Lululemon coin purses now because I got so many gift cards for my birthday. Lucky girl! Great for spare change and my Metrocard.

My lips are always dry. This Vita-B balm is a great, affordable solution.

I like to think about cookies after exercise. I can't say this chocolate chunk hand sanitizer does the trick.

My hair is always in my face and it distracts me from my ride. I was so happy to get a few Lululemon headbands for my birthday!

SoulCycle is really good about stocking product in their locker rooms - I never have to be without a pony-o. There is shampoo and conditioner inside each shower but I bring my own. I use sulfate-free for my Brazilian blowout. I love Organix brand - affordable and delicious smelling. I got these handy travel sizes at Bed Bath and Beyond.

I don't always shower at the studio, but when I do I blowout my hair there as well. This Frederic Fekkai travel brush is small but mighty.

These Josie Maran Bear Naked Wipes are a refreshing relief post-class. Plus, I can't resist packaging with a cute bear. It's the whole reason I buy Charmin toilet paper!

What do you think? Anything I should add?

#TEDDISEVEN

2012-02-07T06:00:00.007-05:00

This past weekend was the grand extravaganza of #teddiseven. Before we get to the good stuff, I have to credit my dear friend KLR who coined the term Teddi Seven (instead of twenty seven). We added the hashtag for fun and the rest is history.

For my birthday this year, I decided to have a complete blowout with all my girlfriends to celebrate how good life is. It was exactly what I wanted and I couldn't be happier.

You know I love to tell stories though photos so here we go!

Where it all began. How fab is that banner?!

AEG hosted a little pre-party at her apartment. She and all the other Kappas (+ our favorite ADPi) surprised me and it was so much fun.

BFF.

I had a few surprises of my own! The party favors were miniature bottles of Patron, with miniature straw, naturally.

I also brought Funfetti cake for dessert! I live for this stuff. I'm going to serve it at my wedding.

The banner traveled with us all night. We hung it up at the restaurant and here we are hanging it up in da club.

I got a table because I wanted my girls and I to have lots of space to dance and put down our things. Awesome decision. This is when they were bringing the bottles over. A classic moment followed when the waitress asked me what mixers I wanted her to bring over to which I replied incredulously, "Mixers?! I drink it on the rocks!". I still have no idea what mixers she brought but for the sake of my guests I hope it was something.

Here's a better photo of the dress. I was in love with it for months before finally buying it the day after Thanksgiving with no specific event in mind (which you know I love to do). It had been hanging in my closet just waiting to be worn. It was definitely not the most flattering but so much fun to wear and very birthday appropriate. It's by Rebecca Taylor.

There are absolutely, positively no words to describe just how much I adore these ladies. They showered me in Patron and Sauvignon Blanc and Lululemon gift cards and SoulCycle gift cards and Lululemon headbands and Snoopy and jewelry and kate spade and most importantly, love. It just never ceases to amaze me how incredibly generous they are and how unbelievably lucky I am to have them in my life.

I can't. Too much fun. Is there such a thing? Thank you to everyone who was a part of it. #teddiseven has only just begun and is already the best year yet.

February goals

2012-02-06T08:14:00.001-05:00

Here they are... A little bit of the same, a little bit new, and definitely a little bit silly. It's going to be a great month... February is already off to a fantastic start!

January goals update

2012-02-02T06:00:00.002-05:00

At the beginning of last month, I posted this photo of my goals for the month. Wanted to update you on what I accomplished (and what I didn't).

Maintain weight. Done.

Have a kick ass birthday. So done. And it's not over yet!

Start to plan girl's trip. Vague, because I have more than one girl's trip in mind for this year. But I did start planning one!

Read 3 books. So close! I read Eat This, Not That! 2012 and Why We Broke Up and really enjoyed both. I just recently started An Object of Beauty which is so good I can hardly put it down.

Write a quarter of mine. Not exactly, but making headway.

Take 10 SoulCycle classes. Did it! Was a bit tough to squeeze them in with two weeks of travel but I was determined.

Donate one bag of clothing. I've started to put the bag together, but there are definitely a few more things to add.

Try 3 new restaurants. Did it! Bill's Bar & Burger, Fishtail and A Voce. All delicious. Trying another one tomorrow!

Pay off MasterCard. Ha. No. This was almost sarcastic. I'll get there, though!

Get rid of 3 pairs of shoes. Argh. Haven't done it yet. Can't decide which shoes!

NYJL Shops! Online Shopping Extravaganza

2012-02-01T06:00:00.001-05:00

My Junior League committee is hosting an online shopping event that begins today! Please support us by entering NYJLSHOPNOW at checkout for special offers at the above retailers.

(You will receive a gift with purchase and free shipping at Lilly Pulitzer.)

Happy shopping!

A sunshine state celebration

2012-01-30T06:00:00.005-05:00

Celebrating Nana's 85th (and my 27th) in Florida was such a treat. I got to spend time with family I don't see nearly enough. The gorgeous weather was an added bonus.

Leopard ladies! I lent Perri my top and cardigan... Doesn't she look good in my clothes? My sweater is from J. Crew and was a birthday gift.

The girls and Nana right before our birthday dinner. I love this shot.

Publix birthday cake. My very favorite in the whole wide world. I wish I had a piece right now.

Making a wish!

Two treats in one night! Went out for drinks with my sister and cousins after dinner and the maitre d' surprised us with this beautiful dessert!

No trip is complete without a bit of shopping... I picked up this Josie Natori for Target pajama set. I've loved Natori for years and you can't beat these prices. I wish they had more like it! So cute and comfortable.

The trips down South always go by much too fast and as always, I'm already thinking about next time. Happy birthday Nana - 85 never looked so good!

85 and sunny

2012-01-27T06:00:00.003-05:00

I'm off to Florida to celebrate Nana's 85th! I sure hope you follow me on twitter so you can get your daily dose of #nanatweets!

Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

They say it's your birthday...

2012-01-25T06:00:00.004-05:00

Today I begin what's sure to be the best year of my life.

Let's do this.

In my 27th year, I resolve to...

2012-01-24T06:00:00.004-05:00

...be in the best shape of my life. Hamptons, here I come!
...take chances.
...not be afraid to sit at the bar by myself while I'm waiting for a girlfriend.
...blog as much as I can.
...read more.
...spend less.
...finish, finish, finish.
...fall in love.
...try something new.
...work on being more approachable.
...indulge.
...unplug more.
...whine less.
...not waste a moment.
...give 28 a run for its money.

A night of Generosity

2012-01-23T06:00:00.002-05:00

Last Thursday, I attended Generosity, a fundraiser put on by UJA-Federation of New York. Admittedly, my post-Israel high played a part in my purchasing the ticket (funds raised go towards strengthening various Jewish communities). Generosity is, in UJA's words, "one of New York City's premier fundraising events for community-involved, socially conscious Jews in their 20s and 30s". I make it a point to try to attend several charity cocktail parties every year, and I have to say this was one of the best I've been to yet.

I wish I'd taken more pictures of the event space. The party was held at Capitale, an elegant venue downtown. I attended a Junior League party there a few years ago and was really excited to go back. The top shelf bar was lined glass bowls of jelly beans and truffled waffle potato chips.

With gal pals JE and HS at the step and repeat. I borrowed a few of HS's photos for this post... thanks!

Bites included beautiful passed hors d'oeuvres and a full sushi bar. Fresh and delicious.

I wore a black sequin Michael Kors wrap dress and black patent leather Michael Kors heels. It's always such a treat to get dressed up on a Thursday!

Few things I love more than a photo booth complete with props!

With new friend RZ!

Primo candy bar on the way out. The worst part about events like this, in my opinion, is coat check. I only own one dressy coat... it's a beautiful Burberry London gilded coat with a skirted bottom that fits like a dream. It was my 26th birthday gift to myself. The coat check was an absolute mob scene and somehow I had lost my ticket. After a lot of arguing, I finally got my beloved Burberry back. These sweets definitely softened the blow. And I was beyond delighted to find a bag of Twizzlers cherry nibs in my clutch the next morning.

Giving money to a good cause and getting to party while doing it is always a win-win. A fabulous evening with great friends and great fun!

Twenty Teddi

2012-01-18T06:00:00.002-05:00

We already talked about 2011 (though I'm sure I could say more...) so now I want to talk about 2012.

This year is, in a large part, about other people's happiness. And I mean that in the best way possible. Both my best friend from childhood and my best friend from college are getting married, I have the honor of being in the bridal party of each, and my family will be at both weddings as well. To have just one happen in a year would be a big deal; to have two is more than I can say.

It took a long time, but I'm at a point where I'm really content just being with me. I don't know when or how it happened, but I do know that every single day is a challenge that I'm ready and happy to take on. So I'll be 27 in a week and I'm not married. Or engaged. Or nowhere near close to either. It's okay. I really, truly, finally believe that. This is not the life I anticipated. It's better. I'm going to SoulCycle and laughing with girlfriends and traveling with family and drinking a lot of Patron and enjoying quiet nights at home. I'm doing my thing. All the while knowing that more lies ahead. God has a bigger plan for me than I ever had for myself. I never knew it was possible to feel this good without having all of the things that I formerly equated with happiness. It is the best realization yet.

I have renamed Twenty Twelve "Twenty Teddi" as a reminder that the best is yet to come. As good as last year was, I firmly believe that this one can top it. I'm just getting started.

Last but not least, I need to give a big shout out to my sister, who is responsible for JGIWC's new look! Isn't it fab? And about time! She's available for hire... inquire within.

What's in JGIWC's makeup bag?

2012-01-16T06:00:00.000-05:00

I recently cleaned this out, reevaluated and refilled it so I thought this would be a fun post.

Left to right, top to bottom:

Tory Burch makeup bag: from Bergdorf Goodman and the perfect size and shape. Love it.

Bath & Body Works lotion: hate cherries but love things that are cherry-scented. I still wear Love Spell from time to time.

Bath & Body Works hand sanitizer: grabbed a bunch of these during their post-holidays sale. I don't like to go anywhere without hanny sanny.

YSL Volupte Sheer Candy Glossy Balm: the ultimate lip product. Makes my lips look pink and shiny and wet and sexy...

Yankee Candle lip balm: ...but it's an expensive little tube and sometimes I just need something simpler on my lips. Enter this.

Kate Spade Twirl perfume: I often forget to put on perfume before leaving the house (or the locker room at Soul, or wherever I'm coming from). I need to stock up on these.

Pony-o's, hair clip, brush: I am forever in search of a pony-o. I have so many but they never seem to stay put.

Shu Uemera eyelash curler: I'm so insecure about my lashes that I actually carry this around with me so I can curl whenever I please. Recently found the most amazing mascara that helps, too... I should do another makeup post.

Trish McEvoy emergency beauty card with mini brushes: bronzer, eyeshadow, and liner. Came with the too-cute-for-words brushes. Great investment.

Yankee Candle air freshener: because you just never know.

Twenty-seventh heaven

2012-01-13T06:00:00.014-05:00

I turn the big 2-7 in less than two weeks! I told my parents that I didn't want anything, which is, in a way, true... they gave me SO much last year (and every day). But that's not to say there isn't anything on my wish list (also known as, "if no one buys me any of these things, I will buy them all for myself").

Would you believe me if I told you that all I want for my birthday this year is SoulCycle classes?

Smart move - I wouldn't believe me either. But truthfully, it is at the top of my list because I really need it. I'd like to start going three times a week, every week.

A few other things I certainly wouldn't mind receiving...

I've been passionately lusting after this Maya Brenner necklace for some time now. What a fabulous display of adoration for my home state. (By the way, Lucky magazine is offering 35% off her jewelry via the promo code "lucky3".)

Would love another one of these Lululemon run:swiftly tech long sleeves - I have one in hot pink and wear it all the time -but honestly, I'd just be thrilled to get anything from there.

Let's call a spade a spade (pun intended). Their customer service infuriates me but this dress is and has been calling my name for MONTHS. I already own the tights in the photo for cryin' out loud!

This falls a bit more under "need" than "want", but regardless, I'd really like to treat myself to a beautiful pair of leather gloves.

Because no list is ever complete without a little VS.

Saved the best for last

2012-01-11T06:00:00.013-05:00

Last Israel post, I promise.

On our last day of the trip, the IsraelExperts (that's the trip organizer I took) rep asked us to say what our one 'aha!' moment in Israel was.

I decided to keep it to myself then, but I want to share it with you now.

The day we traveled to Jerusalem, we drove to a lookout point as the sun was going down. Geographically, Israel is fascinating... the terrain is so vast for such a small country. Often times we were below sea level, but on this particular evening it felt as though we were high, overlooking the old city.

I've dreamed about visiting Jerusalem my whole life. Small cups of wine were passed around and we toasted one another - L'chaim - to life, and gathered for a group picture.

After the last shot was snapped, we disposed of the cups and prepared to re-board the bus. As we shuffled around listening to our tour guide's last instructions, he concluded his speech by quietly saying, "Welcome home".

And we were. But it wasn't until I heard it that I felt it and I knew it. 'Welcome home'. His voice was almost a whisper so I think most of the group didn't even hear it, but... Those two words changed everything... they broke my heart and pieced it back together all at once. I'm literally sobbing as I type this now. I have another home. It's far away and I don't know when I'll be back, but it's mine. Every living, breathing Jew... this is our revenge. We're still in tact. They tried to destroy us but couldn't. And we have this beautiful little state as proof. And I had the honor of standing in it, exploring it, reveling in it.

I will never forget that moment as long as I live.

The land that changed my life, part 3

2012-01-09T06:00:00.003-05:00

On Ben Yehuda street in Jerusalem with JH. One of our nights out.

With NS and JH in the hookah lair.

Approaching the Wailing Wall. I wrote a really poignant letter to God and I honestly wish I had a copy. But I believe that he'll read it and answer my prayers.

Woof. Bad hair day at the wall. I waited my whole life for this and it wasn't what I expected. It wasn't personal; it was awkward. It's very difficult to have a moment with God with so many people around and all fighting for the same spot. The women's side of the wall is considerably smaller than the men's side, so I literally had to push my way to the front. I folded my piece of paper as much as I could, I literally shoved it in a crack, and I said a very quick prayer. The most comforting part of the whole episode was knowing that somewhere in the premises was a piece of paper containing a prayer that my dad had written 40 years prior.

Wall premises with a stunning view of Jerusalem in the background.

Two of my favorite boys, RM and JH, at the wall.

On my way out of the wall, a holy man stopped me, tied this around my wrist and wished me a L'shana Tovah (happy holiday). I took it as a good luck sign. It fell off on new years day, which also felt like a good sign.

Ein Gedi. The photo from this post was also taken there. This was breathtakingly beautiful and in my opinion one of the most underrated aspects of the whole experience. My dad swam here 40 years ago!

With WC and RC, the best plane pals EVER, on the top of Masada. The climb was challenging but worth the schlep. I never in a million years would have imagined how expansive it was up there. Colonies actually lived there many moons ago.

The Israeli flag on top of Masada. One of my favorite photos from the trip.

Some of the girls at the kibbutz pub on the last night out. I miss them so.

The land that changed my life, part 2

2012-01-05T06:00:00.004-05:00

Ahhh. An upscale mall in Tel Aviv. This was also the only place in Israel I found Max Brenner, an Israeli purveyor of chocolate that's very popular in New York, for sale.

Here I am trying to choose. As you can see, it was a taxing decision. My only regret is not buying more. (Photo credit to NS)

My dad always told me that Tel Aviv is Israel's version of Miami Beach. He was right, and it may have been the place, geographically, that I was the most comfortable. I really felt like I was home.

I found this delicious looking chocolate pastry at a bakery in Jaffa and decided to give it a whirl. I split it with my friend and it was honest to God one of the best things I've ever eaten. We spent the remainder of the trip trying to find it again and were actually quite successful... many times. This seems to be a popular delicacy in the holy land. Like a chocolate croissant but SO much better.

We only stayed in Tel Aviv for one night, but we got to go out! It was chilly, but we sat outside and drank Cape Codders. I flirted with the bartender so he'd make mine extra strong. The bar was sort of terrible, but it didn't matter.

This was right after I FINALLY found Patron (and paid more for that glass than I did for the dress I'm wearing that I bought that day at the Tel Aviv Mall). I think the clock had just stuck midnight and we were celebrating one of our boy's birthdays, hence my "WAH" face. (Photo credit to GB)

This is Tel Aviv's Kings Square, where Yitzhak Rabin was assassinated. It all felt very familiar to me as our tour guide was telling us the story. I did a monologue of his granddaughter's eulogy for 8th grade speech and remember feeling really naive yet being so moved by it all. I loved the heart painted on those steps.

I miss Israeli iced coffee dearly. This was taken after our visit to the Holocaust Memorial, which was a very long and emotional few hours. Personally, it was the most difficult part of the trip for me. I felt incredibly lucky to have so many new friends comfort me as I stood and sobbed in the middle of the museum. We were in dire need of a treat by this point.

Yitzhak and Leah Rabin's graves at Mount Herzl.

Still more to come!

Starting the year off right

2012-01-04T08:34:00.001-05:00

I interrupt this Israel love fest to bring you my goals for January. I figure if I post them here then you all can hold me accountable.

What do you hope to accomplish this month?

The land that changed my life, part 1

2012-01-03T06:00:00.011-05:00

I think the best way to share this experience with you is through photos and captions (and not elaborate explanations of WHY it changed my life, as I'd originally intended).

So let's start here.

This photo was taken on the second morning of the trip at a kibbutz (where we stayed) in Ashdot Yaakov. We stayed there for three days and three nights and it was a really unique, camp-like experience. The place was like a frikkin' zoo - animals roam as they please. A few days later, this peacock was chased by a dog and I nearly lost my marbles as they both came charging towards me.

Our first group picture! This was taken during a break from a nature hike. We tried numerous times to get a good photo and there are many versions floating around Facebook but this is probably the best shot. Can you spot me? (photo credit to GB)

Here I am with some of the girls. We were resting after a nature hike. This was our first full day in Israel and the excitement and energy were absolutely contagious. (photo credit to NS)

My kibbutz roommates and I on our way to Shabbat. My good God, how I love these girls. (photo credit to AHC)

Me and my girl RC at the kibbutz pub. We had so much fun on those nights out. Israel does NOT believe in Patron so I drank a lot of vodka.

Girls night out in Tiberius. We had dinner at a Mediterranean restaurant and drinks at a modern bar. I really don't care for Israeli food. At all. Lunch was usually the meal we got to choose for ourselves so I'd pick something other than falafel (which I didn't have once), eat a lot and have a dessert of iced coffee (it's of a frozen, frappucino-like consistency in Israel - incredibly delicious) and/or a chocolate pastry so I could only have a few bites at dinner. On this particular night I ate half a plate of french fries.

More to come!

There'll be golden dust at my feet on the sunny side of the street

2011-12-30T00:44:00.003-05:00

I know I have to tell you all about Israel but I couldn't end the year without taking a moment to reflect.

In a very unexpected way, 2011, has probably been my best year yet. I didn't meet the man of my dreams or fall in love, I didn't accomplish all or even most of what I wanted to, but I exit 2011 a far better woman than I entered it. I've never felt happier or healthier. I found myself in a deep, dark hole towards the middle of this year and after several months of living life in a blur, waking up every day and wondering if things would get better, I finally woke up one day and decided to MAKE them better. I didn't crawl out of that hole; I catapulted myself out of it.

When many of you met me back in 2008, I was a young girl stuck in a dead end job and dating jerks. I started JGIWC as a way to escape from everything that was holding me down. Nearly four years later, it still serves as both a safe haven and my favorite creative outlet. This blog changed my life. It is truly the gift that keeps giving.

This year, I decided to be the change. I shed myself of extra weight and insecurities. I realized that happiness is a mood and not a destination. I crossed over to the sunny side of the street.

Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous new year. I truly believe it'll be the best one yet.

Eretz Yisrael

2011-12-29T07:08:00.007-05:00

I don't even know where to begin.

It was life-changing, heart breaking, reaffirming, and everything else I've been imagining for the past 27 years.

Still trying to determine the best way to sum it all up in one or several posts. Stay with me.

(Photo credit to AHC)

The Real World: Israel

2011-12-27T15:23:00.002-05:00

Here's an idea for a reality show...

Put 40 strangers aged 22-26 on a plane to Israel. Then stick them on a bus for ten days. Lots of single guys, only a few single girls. Cameras follow as the group takes on endless adventures and Israeli nightlife. The food is strange, the showers require squeegees and there is very little contact with the outside world. Anything could happen. And does.

How has MTV not picked this up yet?

Today's the day

2011-12-14T09:25:00.002-05:00

What a life-changing week! Between the Brazilian Blowout (worth every penny and more), the shellac manicure (I'm still in awe) and my brand new iPhone (love at first sight)... I feel like I'm a brand new woman!

Okay... perhaps the above are life-improvers rather than life-changers. The Brazilian Blowout is going to save me endless time and energy... I can now actually spin at 6AM, shower and dry at the gym, and still be where I need to be on time, stress-free and looking good. That's priceless.

I'm not sure how often I'll actually do the shellac manicure but it's comforting to know that I can pay for a manicure that won't chip the next day. This is largely a part of why I've been doing my own nails for the past few years. It seemed cost-effective and I actually find the process relaxing. Plus, I love being able to dry at home.

And the iPhone, oh the iPhone. I can now take outfit photos in which you'll actually be able to see what I'm wearing! What a novel concept!

But perhaps the most life-changing event of the week is yet to come. I leave for Israel tonight.

...and I haven't even finished packing and have about ten errands to run before the car picks me up at 4. So I just want to say this. Thank you all SO much for your support over the past few months. I have no scheduled posts or guest bloggers lined up, so this will officially be the longest hiatus in JGIWC history. I am told that free WiFi is prevalent in Israel so I am going to attempt to tweet when I can. I return to New York on Christmas day and I look forward to catching up with you all then.

I will leave you with these parting words of advice that Nana gave me: "Remember, love. Don't bring home an Israeli! Bring home a nice American man."

I love you all! Happy early Hanukkah!

It's the holiday season...

2011-12-12T00:01:00.000-05:00

Well, we're in the single digits of counting down to Israel. I can hardly believe it. Seems like just yesterday I was sitting at this very laptop, filling out my Birthright registration form and holding down vomit.

Tis the season!!!

I depart on Wednesday and return Christmas day and am trying to squeeze in every ounce of holiday joy before the wheels go up. Part of me is a little sad to be away from my family for the first half of Hanukkah, but then again, how many people get to say they celebrated it in our homeland? Much to my delight, I was able to pack this weekend full of tinsel and treats.

Friday night, I attended the University Club holiday black tie ball... so fun! A big thank you to AEG and BCV for including me. Love them so much. I'm so sad/mad that we did not take a standing photo but I wore this dress (I bought it on Black Friday) and I am so in love with it... Definitely going to re-wear. Very soon.

Saturday night, AEG once again played hostess with the mostess and had the girls over for a holiday dinner. The food and decor were so spectacular and I wish I'd caught it all on film but my camera battery was shot.

I did get a photo of our party favors, however... (this was taken after I'd eaten a few) Those cake balls. My God. I had to share them with Mom and Dad so I wouldn't eat them all.

Had gift exchanges with Blair's Head Band and MMM, my holiday cards are in the outgoing mailbox and the ribbon on my wreath has been changed from green to gold. I had my first shellac manicure today so that I don't have to worry about my nails. Appointmentss for Bliss and Brazil Bronze Bar have been made. Hey, if I'm gonna ride a camel, you had better believe I'm gonna look good doing it.

It's almost that time...

Friday smiles

2011-12-09T15:07:00.008-05:00

A few things that made me smile today...

This morning my favorite SoulCycle instructor led his last Rooster (6AM) class. To celebrate, we surprised him with special tees (a rooster with his face on it!) right before our 75 minute class. Both the play list and the ride were absolutely epic. He told us little stories about his time in the city while we were spinning and the last songs we rode to were "The Only Living Boy in New York" by Simon and Garfunkel (I cried a bit; this is one of my all-time favorite songs); "City of Blinding Lights" by U2; "Empire State of Mind" by Jay Z and Alicia Keyes and we rode out to the last few verses of Frank Sinatra's "New York, New York". Unbelievable.

Roarke is moving out to California to open the new Soul studio in West Hollywood. All my LA readers - you must PROMISE me that you will take his class! He is one in a million and I'm so, so sad he's leaving, but our loss is certainly your gain.

After a looong nap following class, I treated myself to a day of beauty! I had my first ever Brazilian Blowout. So far, so good... I'm so glad I did this before Israel. Everyone keeps telling me their flat irons melted there from the converters! I still feel like I need to bring one, though... Perhaps I'll pick up a cheap one before I go.

My friends at vineyard vines generously sent me a gift card for the holidays... I used it to get this ruffled henley! Will be so cute with my straight leg vineyard jeans!

Wishing you a wonderful weekend! I have a black tie tonight and get to wear my gorgeous new gown! So happy I'm able to squeeze in a few holiday parties before I jet off to the holy land. (By the way, I can't thank you enough for your kind comments and emails. I haven't gotten back to everyone yet but I promise I will.)

Winnah! Winnah!*

2011-12-07T21:10:00.003-05:00

Congratulations to...

sl, I have no idea how to get in touch with you so please get in touch with me!

Thank you all for playing and a big thank you to Katie Diamond Jewelry for hosting this generous giveaway!

*TOTALLY stole this title from my girl UGA Bama Belle! It's my virtual way of standing on a porch in a big straw sun hat and announcing the winner!

Curly hair and preppy flair

2011-12-05T22:41:00.004-05:00

My Birthright trip is looming. I leave a week from Wednesday. I'm at the point where I'm asked, "Are you excited?" at least once a day.

I hesitate every time.

I was born and raised in a tight knit Jewish community in Miami miles away from where my dad grew up and down the street from where my parents met. Everyone knew everyone. I didn't go to school with or know kids who weren't Jewish until 7th grade, which was the year of my bat mitzvah. Shortly thereafter, we moved to Dallas. Our second day there, I found a KKK notice on our lawn. I brought it inside to my mother; she screamed her head off and said we were leaving. We stayed for five years. I spent the first one crying every night for my beloved Miami until I realized we weren't going back. I gave in, joined BBYO, and again my social life was defined by Judaism. I knew no other way.

I decided to step out of the box in college and join the all-American sorority, in which I was the token Jew and that was always good for a laugh. I dated a Jewish boy whom I truly believed I'd marry (nope) but for the first time, religion did not dominate my extracurricular activities or circle of friends. My best friend was (is!) Catholic and took me home for Easter our senior year. I loved every minute of it. A large banner reading "HE IS RISEN" hung outside of the church which reminded me of living in Dallas because we had a neighbor who put up the same sign every Easter. A month later I graduated college, said goodbye to the guy and moved to New York.

I thought that of all the places I've lived, this would be the easiest place to be Jewish. I was wrong. It's been the hardest. I'm such a different person than who I was in high school and I don't care what anyone says, meeting a good Jewish man in this city is no small feat. I had ten girls at my birthday party last year. One was Jewish. This year I'll have more girls, but the Jew to Wasp ratio won't change much. It doesn't bother me. I love my social life and I'm so comfortable where I am, but my how things have changed.

We don't talk much about the actual title of this blog, so here it is. My clothing isn't as Waspy as it once was, and I'm not as Jewish as I once was. I'm terrified about going to Israel. I've never felt more sure of who I am but I've also never felt further away from my religion. And as content as I am, that just doesn't feel right. I'm really hopeful that this is just what I need to reconnect and find the happy medium between the two that I so desperately crave. And I will be bringing my Brooks Brothers shirt and my Lilly Pulitzer wrap. Because no matter what happens or changes, I still am and will always be the Jewish Girl in Wasp's Clothing.

If I had a Christmas stocking...

2011-11-30T18:47:00.000-05:00

O&Co. Organic Savon de Marseille The creamiest bar of soap I've ever used!

Lululemon Braided Headband My hair is always in my face during Soul.

Chanel Le Vernis Nail Colour in Dragon I've yet to see it in person, but I'm already convinced that this is going to be the perfect red.

Yves Saint Laurent Volupte Sheer Candy Glossy Balm I go NOWHERE without this. I'll take an extra Juicy Grapefruit, please!

Victoria's Secret Lacie Thongs Nothin' better.

What do you want in yours?

Katie Diamond Isla Necklace Giveaway!

2011-11-29T22:16:00.005-05:00

Over the summer, I discovered Katie Diamond jewelry and it was love at first sight. I got to chatting with their head of PR and we've been pals ever since. She and the rest of the team at Katie Diamond has been so incredibly kind as to host a giveaway for my readers!

One lucky winner will receive the Isla necklace in the color of their choice! I'll tell ya, I wish I could enter this one! That thing is stunning!

To enter, please leave a comment on this entry telling me which color you'd choose. I know - not an easy decision!

For an extra entry, please send me a screenshot of yourself liking Katie Diamond Jewelry on Facebook.

I will draw a winner on Monday, December 5.

Good luck!

Giving Thanks

2011-11-27T21:46:00.006-05:00

Thanksgiving is not my favorite holiday, in fact, it's far from it. Which feels ironic considering I pride myself on being a gracious person and I'm the thank you note's biggest fan. This year I feel extra thankful and I wanted to share why.

First and foremost, my health. (Also ironic... I've been sick in bed for the past two days. Wah!) On Thanksgiving morning, I participated in the Turkey Burn at Soul Cycle - a 90 minute high intensity ride. A standard Soul class is 45 minutes so this was a double with no break in between. The instructor always says to create an intention for your ride but this class we were told to think about what we were thankful for. I though about how I am thankful for my strong body... A year ago I wouldn't have even dreamed about trying a regular Soul class - let alone a double!

For a dad who sits in bed with me when I am sick and shares his apple slices and New Yorker, who does my grocery run because I couldn't, and who is just generally my hero... For a mom who checks in on me constantly and always knows what to say to make me feel better ... For a little sister who calls my parents when she hears me throwing up in the powder room and asks them to come home, even though they'd just left... For a Nana who has started a Twitter revolution and is so much of why I am me... For aunts and an uncle who love me for me... For cousins whom I can call best friends, and mean it... For their children, who are the loves of my life... I am inexplicably thankful for my incredible family.

I am thankful for friends that feel like family. Strong, supportive women who stand behind me and beside me. Whether they're sorority sisters or soul sisters, these girls brighten my life every single day. I may not have found the man but I have one hell of a bridal party.

I am thankful for all of the challenges that I've been faced with this year, all the ups and downs... Because they brought me to today, and I wouldn't be who I am without any of it. And I've never been more comfortable in my own skin or felt better than I do now, stomach bug and all.

Last but most certainly not least, I am thankful for all of you. You inspire me, you encourage me, and you are what keeps me going. Thank you for wanting to be a part of Jewish Girl in Wasp's Clothing. I promise you, the best is yet to come.

The obsessive planner gets the ultimate planner

2011-11-22T22:35:00.005-05:00

Last year, my dad bought me a pink leather Kate Spade planner. It's beautiful, but the heaviness of it prevented me from taking it anywhere, which sort of defeats the purpose of a planner. If you know me at all, you've probably figured out by now that I am anal. I plan everything in advance. I need something I can carry around with me and the Kate Spade just wasn't cutting it.

I'd read about Erin Condren, a whimsical stationery site, on some other blogs and had been browsing the online store. I loved the idea that the life planner was customizable and could have my name and choice of cover design. I literally had it in my online cart but decided to hold off a bit. Thank goodness I waited! I chatted with my friend Sarah and learned that Plum District was running a deal on Erin Condren - $25 for $50 worth of product. The planner is $50. Coupled with a 30% coupon for Plum District and $10 off at Erin Condren, I ended up paying about $12 for the planner. (Thanks Sarah!)

$12 well spent! The planner is wonderful. Each day is split into three parts with plenty of writing room for all of my plans. There are also dedicated spaces for goals, to do lists, and lined pages at the beginning of each month. The planner has two pockets and a zip case with several calling cards and gift tags inside - a nice surprise! The only downside is that, ironically, this isn't much lighter than my Kate Spade planner. C'est la vie.

I got these calendar stickers at See Jane Work. I love them... except for the fact that there are only 16 stickers of each design. I'm sure it's intentional, as I'll quickly run out of 16 'work out' stickers and will have to buy more. Also, who needs 16 'taxes' stickers? That's one day of the year! And who really goes to 16 barbecues?! Alas, I think it's a really fun way to record events.

Even though I paid a fraction of the price, I think this planner is pretty much perfect and well worth the $50 price tag.

Are you as nerdily into your planner as I am? Do you write with pencil or pen? Do you color code? Tell me everything.

Jewish Baby in Wasp's Clothing

2011-11-21T19:05:00.011-05:00

This past weekend I traveled to Georgia for a family baby naming. A baby naming, for anyone who doesn't know, is a Jewish ceremony in which a baby girl is given her Hebrew name. This is typically held at temple but back in the day our rabbi made house calls. Here we are (in our living room) at Baby Perri's naming many moons ago.

That's me in the headband!

Baby N's naming, however, was held in a beautiful and very old Southern synagogue.

It was love at first sight. She is a chip off the old blog (pun intended) and we got along famously.

I was only in Georgia for 48 hours (I flew in and out of Florida so that I could accompany Nana and co. for the car ride) but Baby N and I got to spend lots of quality time together. I'm so grateful.

My partner in crime for the weekend was my cousin and dear friend Julie, who writes a blog about her life with Chron's Disease and how she's kicking its ass! I'm so proud of her. Truly an inspiration.

Those of you who follow me on Twitter probably feel like you've met Nana by now through all my #nanatweets! She was a beaming great-grandmother and I'm so very happy we were able to get her there for this milestone.

The JBIWC is wearing Ralph Lauren, in case you were wondering.

What a fabulous weekend with some of my very favorite people. I'm so sad it's over but so thankful for the time. We need to do it more often. Life is too short.

Five little things that make my life a lot easier

2011-11-16T20:27:00.001-05:00

I always love reading these, so I figured I'd share some.

1. I keep a box of beautiful yet generic birthday cards in my stationery kit. This way, if I don't remember about someone's special day until the last possible moment, I can easily send them snail mail wishes without having to add "run to the card store" to my never-ending To Do list.

2. I plan outfits for upcoming events months (and months) in advance. I purchased the frock on the previous post way back in February, thinking that I could wear it to this particular wedding as the deep purple is a perfect shade for fall. (Thank you for the sweet comments! The dress in Rebecca Taylor.)

3. I start holiday shopping in October. This includes picking out and purchasing my holiday cards, which is one of my very favorite parts of the season. It's mid-November and I'm almost all "wrapped up"! (Bad pun intended.)

4. I've pared down the bare necessities (and a few splurges, too) to one cosmetic bag so that when I switch handbags I don't have to worry about finding the wandering hand sanitizer or missing lip gloss - it's all finally in one place. (Side note: totally going to do a "What's in JGIWC's makeup bag?" in the very near future.)

5. I keep all of my pony-o's in a ring dish. It's a tip I picked up from InStyle. I was gifted the most beautiful Kate Spade ring dish but I'm not engaged and I don't really wear rings so this is the perfect use for it. I no longer have to walk around my apartment with one hand around my hair and the other searching every nook and cranny for one. They seem to disappear rather often, so I love that they're all in one neat place.

And one thing that does NOT make my life easier... My Love bracelet. It beeped in airport security this morning and I had to get the dreaded pat down. But it's the best thing I own, so I don't mind suffering a grope for it every now and again.

24 hours in Jax

2011-11-14T21:12:00.013-05:00

This past weekend I traveled to Jacksonville, Florida for the wedding of a sorority sister and dear friend. What a spectacular evening!

The bride and groom walked up the aisle to an instrumental version of "Another One Bites the Dust". Brilliant!

Being silly after the ceremony. Can't believe she's next!

Gettin' down with the Maid of Honor (who was also my date)!

Such a happy couple. The wedding cake was DELICIOUS! Is it just me, or do they usually look a whole lot better than they taste? I actually wanted a second piece but was a little too tipsy to find it.

All you wise old owls out there will know what this is... We were singing "Oh Pat" to the groom! A Kappa tradition.

And from singing those Kappas songs at sorority meetings many moons ago to singing them at weddings now, these girls and I have come a long way. There are no words to convey how special it is to be able to share in all of our good fortune and big moments together. I can't believe that of the four of us, two are married and one will be in less than a year! We really are growing up. I'm so happy my friends have found love, and I can only hope that I will be as lucky someday. But for now...

I'mma be me.

Friday Five

2011-11-11T09:44:00.003-05:00

Five funny and/or fab things that happened to me in the past week...

1. One of the building porters accidentally shut off the running water in my building at 6:45 on Saturday night. I had somewhere to be at 8:45 and hadn't yet done my hair. Luckily I had showered that morning, but dry shampoo just wasn't gonna cut it. I had to wash my hair in the sink with bottles of ice cold Poland Springs. In the middle of all this, the water got turned back on and my tub faucet nearly exploded. I had three maintenance guys in my apartment as I was getting ready, but they fixed it. And my 'do looked pretty damn good.

2. I had dinner with a girlfriend at one of my favorite restaurants, BLT Prime, on Wednesday evening. I asked for Patron and lime juice and was served Patron on the rocks. I'd be happy to drink that on a Friday or Saturday evening (who am I kidding, I'd be happy to drink that any night of the week) but not when I have a 7am Soul Cycle class in 11 hours. I sadly had to send it back. It was like five shots on ice. Delicious.

3. I got a black J. Crew card in the mail. Does this mean I have to throw away my platinum?

4. I ran into the sweetest JGIWC reader at C. Wonder yesterday. She asked me to bring back "What is JGIWC wearing today?" and I'm totally gonna. Check my twitter next week for updates!

5. It's 11/11/11 which is FAB because 11 is my lucky number. It's already been an incredible month... here's to the rest of it!

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Wishes for a wonderful weekend, my dear friends!

Missing our favorite angry, dapper Jew?

2011-11-09T00:06:00.001-05:00

Me too.

You're welcome.

All I want for Hanukkah is...

2011-11-08T00:05:00.009-05:00

Soul Cycle classes and spin shoes

Victoria's Secret gift card for pretty pajamas (et al)

Junk Food Little Miss Miami tee

Kate Spade Bow Ski Hat

J. Crew cashmere shawl-collar cardigan

Monogrammed Tervis Tumbler with lid and straw

What's on your list?

Here, there, everywhere

2011-11-07T09:49:00.007-05:00

I'm here! I'm here! The past few weeks have been downright nutty and I'd like to say I'm going to settle in and get cozy but that's just not the case. Not yet. This weekend, I'm off to Florida for another wedding and the following weekend it's a baby naming in Georgia. There's a chill in the air here in New York and I'm enjoying every moment of it. (Except the unexpected snowstorm two Saturdays ago. I brought cranky to a whole new level.)

Perri recently celebrated her nineteenth birthday! Can you believe it? I sure can't! I'm unable to imagine a time when she won't seem like a baby to me even though she's so grown up. I'm just thankful and lucky that she'll play the part and still holds my hand when we cross the street without complaint.

A sweet sorority sister was in town for the installation of our newest chapter at New York University and all the gals reunited at Dorrian's on Saturday night. What fun dancing to recent pop hits and 80s classics! Few things I love more than a good Girls Night Out.

I've also been helping out C. Wonder with their opening and have been fortunate enough to meet some JGIWC readers in the store! I'll be there a few more days and have really enjoyed it. It's such a light, happy environment. I've never encountered more well-mannered shoppers in my life! Speaking of shopping, who's on top of their holiday shopping game? I only have a few more people to check off my list!

C. Wonder[ful]

2011-11-01T22:08:00.002-04:00

My savvy readers, I'm sure you've heard plenty about C. Wonder by now. I just wanted to assure you that the store absolutely lives up to all of the hype. I went on Sunday and literally could not pick my jaw up off the floor. If I had to describe it referencing other retailers, I'd say that it felt like Kate Spade, Lilly Pulitzer and Tory Burch had a menage a trois and this is the charming, sophisticated love child that magically resulted. Heaven? You betcha.

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I think I walked around the store a good ten times before deciding what I wanted, but one things for sure... I'll be back soon to buy much more. Almost everything in the store is under $200, with many of the price points being $38, $48, and $58.

A few hours before we wandered down to SoHo, I mentioned to my dad that I was in need of a small, lightweight bag for when I'm running around the city and don't feel like carrying my Palermo, which can become quite heavy. Not only is this bag less than half of the price of the Longchamp I'd originally planned on buying to fill the aforementioned need, it's so much cuter!

I'm so glad I grabbed this long gold beaded necklace when I did. Several women came up to me and asked where I'd found it as I was paying, and it was one of two left!

Many more locations are being opened and an e-commerce site is in the works. C. Wonder is truly C. Wonderful!

Fall Staples, Part 1

2011-10-31T20:41:00.000-04:00

These items have been heavily rotated in and out of my closet since the air has turned crisp here in Manhattan.

I've been wanting the Patagonia Women's Down Sweater Vest for so, so long. This was my "YAY you're going to Israel; take this with you" gift from Mom and Dad. I'm told the weather is quite temperamental there in the winter months so this seems like the perfect piece. No shopping bag necessary. I wore this baby outta the store!

I professed my love for the Tory Burch Selma Riding Boot in August, bought them in September (I'm so glad I waited - I saved $150!), and my adoration only grows. I've been wearing these almost every day recently. It's been too cold for ballet flats! (*It now looks like TB is sold out of the brown, but that's the color I got. My friend Dollface has the black and those are great, too!)

The Vineyard Vines Sakonnet Silk Top has been a great transition piece and in my opinion can be worn (appropriately*) almost any day of the year. Can't say that about most clothing items. It looks great with white jeans, blue jeans, and skirts. Most importantly, it's incredibly flattering! (*Navy is the great equalizer of Waspy fashion.)

Plays well with others! I initially tried wearing this J. Crew large resin necklace on its own but quickly realized that it works better as part of trio. I pair it with two other J. Crew necklaces and it's real fun. Big fan of their jewels. It makes a statement, but a quiet, mild mannered one.

What have you been wearing a lot of lately?

Sprucing up the shoebox

2011-10-27T17:53:00.010-04:00

Well, my parents decided to take back the vintage Beatles posters above my bed, so I had to do something fun with that wall. I've been collecting prints for awhile now and I'm really happy with the way this came out.

Yikes! Bad lighting. You're gonna have to zoom in on these to get a real feel for how this all looks.

These prints are Rifle Paper Co. - right outta my old stomping grounds of Winter Park, FL! I initially discovered Rifle greeting cards while shopping for Valentines last year, but I discovered these prints recently and fell in love.

I saw this January Jones print featured on both Real Simple and the lovely Vineyard Loveknots and knew I had to have it. If you look closely, you can see a dotted trail from Miami to Dallas to New York! My three favorite cities. A personalized print at a very fair price.

Ahhh. My two very favorite handbags, the Chanel 2.55 (though mine has a silver chain) and the Louis Vuitton Speedy. These are Emma Kisstina - I bought them ages ago and am so excited to finally have them up!

I matted and framed this NIQUEA.D greeting card. "Live in the sunshine, swim in the sea, drink the wild air." Emerson. Brilliant and so very me, no?

As promised, here's the wreath on my front door. I tied it up with green ribbon because that was all I had. I need to change it to gold, though. My dad came over and frowned.

There's a wreath on my door and I'm going to Israel

2011-10-25T09:59:00.004-04:00

Back in September, I posted about the beginning of my Birthright journey. Shortly after, I did my interview, got all of my ducks in a row, and waited to hear if I'd get to travel to the holy land.

Well... when I was sitting in the Charlotte airport on Sunday, I got the email... I'm going to Israel! I leave December 14. Seven weeks from tomorrow.

Thus far I only have my flight information. I am not-so-patiently waiting to hear more... such as the trip itinerary, a packing list, and whether or not I get to meet my fellow travelers before we depart. The last part is what I'm most antsy about. (I know, you're shocked it's not the packing.) I've heard mumblings from former Birthrighters that a happy hour or some other event is held prior to the trip so that you're not traveling with a bunch of complete strangers. I also heard something about a Facebook group. So that we can all spy on each other before meeting face-to-face? Awesome.

I have to say that while I'm a melting pot of emotion, a lot has changed since the stomachache inducing process of registering. Yes, "nervousness" and "anxiety" are undoubtedly in the mix, but "excitement" and "curiosity" are much higher up on the list. I know that if I didn't do this, I'd regret it for the rest of my life. I am literally getting in under the wire. I am so lucky.

I promise to keep you posted of all the developments in the next two months. You all have been so supportive and it means so much. I cannot believe that ten years later, I am finally going to Israel. It's a dream come true - don't let me tell you otherwise.

P.S. I'll post photos of the wreath tomorrow.

36 hours in God's Country

2011-10-24T10:51:00.005-04:00

Saturday, I traveled to the Carolinas (flew into Charlotte, NC and spent the evening in Sparkle City, SC) for my best friend AEG's engagement party. What an enchanting weekend! We just had the best time celebrating the happy couple. My trip began with a Bojangles biscuit and ended with a bowl of mac 'n cheese. I was so thrilled to be there and my only regret is not taking more photos. Why do I ALWAYS do that? I never want to be the annoying girl with the camera, but then I get home and wish I had been. I must find a happy medium.

With the beautiful bride and another one of her bridesmaids. Love these ladies!

WAAAAAH - you can tell I've already had too much wine by this point because I can't open my eyes all the way for the photo. I still j'adore it though!

Met such awesome people this weekend which makes me look even more forward to the wedding! In the meantime though, can't wait to be my best bride's right hand man. What do you say doll - you, me, a stack of bridal magazines and the Drybar soon? ;)

Sigh. I miss the South already. I did make my intentions of meeting a Southern Jewish lad known though, so now I have lots of good people on the lookout!

Pumpkins and pine cones and wreaths, oh my!

2011-10-20T18:12:00.006-04:00

This afternoon, my dear friend Blair's Headband and I took a trip to Manhattan's Upper West Side. The main purpose of our jaunt uptown was to check out Michael's, but we were pleasantly surprised to find a mecca of suburbia, right in the middle of our city. Nestled right beside Michael's was T.J.Maxx, Home Goods, and Whole Foods!

Here I am, waiting in line with my goodies. I was so excited to be back in Michael's - it ALWAYS reminds me of living in Texas. (This is probably the one and only time I'll be thankful for my BlackBerry camera and its fuzzy photos - because I wasn't wearing a stitch of makeup so the blur seems to be working in my favor!)

I have been wanting to make a mini wreath for my front door, and this seemed like the perfect resource. I picked up a six inch wreath and a wired glitter garland.

I'm pretty happy with the way it turned out. It's beyond simple, which is exactly what I wanted. I can't wait to buy a hook so I can hang it on my front door. I just hope no one steals it!

I also picked up a bag of miniature scented pine cones. They just smelled so darn good. I live for fall scents! I filled a few mason jars (seals off) with them...

...and used the rest (including those adorable tiny pumpkins!) for my cake plate center piece.

I sure have loved getting crafty lately. What DIY projects have you been up to?

Florida Finds

2011-10-18T09:34:00.009-04:00

I headed down to the West Coast of Florida this past weekend to visit my (now famous) Nana! Many of you got to enjoy her humor and wit via #nanatweets. That woman is one of a kind and I sure do love her!

We enjoyed a little shopping, our obligatory dinner at Bonefish Grill (pictured above), many a game of Rummikub, and watching the sunset nightly.

I actually managed to be productive and get quite a bit of holiday shopping done while down south. And of course, I found a few goodies for myself! All at great prices, however...

I can't tell you how many times I've almost bought this Jonathan Adler Desk Dock Organizer in Greek Key for the full price of $25.00, so you can imagine my excitement when I found it at T.J.Maxx for just $9.99! It was the only one left so I scooped it up immediately, but there were some other JA goods I adored as well. I had limited room in my suitcase so this is the only item that made it home with me, but I will certainly be checking out the local locations!

I was also thrilled when I spotted these sparkly red tights at the kate spade outlet for just $7! can't wait to pair these with dresses and my plaid Milly coat for a fun holiday look!

My goodness do I love a good bargain! Now, the search for the perfect holiday card continues...

JGIWC travel essentials

2011-10-14T07:23:00.004-04:00

I'm sitting in Terminal 5 at JFK, waiting to board my flight to Florida and thinking about my travel essentials, as I've been jet setting more often than usual lately. Wanted to share with you what I can't board without...

My Love Quotes scarf... It's bone colored so it goes with everything. Ideal for travel because it's lightweight but keeps me warm. I'm always freezing on planes. Great investment! (available on Shopbop)

My iPad... So I can read and blog, like right now :)

Magazines... I must, must, MUST have reading material for the times that I am unable to access my IPad. For today's flight I have Glamour, US Weekly, and Yoga Journal.

Gum... My ears don't pop anymore, but chewing on gum kind of calms my nerves. I like fruity flavors... Today it's Trident Vitality Vigorate.

Advil... I get headaches rather frequently.

Makeup bag... Not my main one, but a smaller one with the essentials... Trisha McEvoy palette, mini brushes, pony-o's (MUST), lip gloss, cleansing wipes, and hairspray. You never know who you'll end up sitting next to (or running into!)

Time to board! What can't you travel without? Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

Change your resistance, change your body, change your mind... Change anything you want

2011-10-12T16:32:00.007-04:00

My spin instructor said this a few days ago and I keep coming back to it. This has been a year of change, most notably for both my body and mind. This is the healthiest and strongest I've ever been - both physically and emotionally.

Lately I've needed (and made) a lot of changes. Sometimes it's something as small as changing the wallpaper on my phone. (You spend, or at least I spend, a lot of time looking at my phone. It should be updated often and display something that makes me smile each time you see it!) Other times, it takes a bit more effort than pushing a few buttons.

I've decided to dine out less so that I could go to Soul Cycle more. The classes are pricey but so rewarding. I'm happy to give up a few restaurant meals for the feeling I get during that last sprint. It is more than worth the trade off.

I've realized that there are certain people who have only had a negative impact on me lately and whom I can no longer have in my life. This wasn't as much a decision as it was a promise to myself - to make a conscious effort not to let those sort of people stick around as long (or at all) next time. And not to take any more crap. I deleted numbers from my phone and went on about my day. Simple as that.

I've discovered that it's much easier for me to get out of bed in the morning (not to mention get up on time) if my home is organized and tidy. If only I had known this in high school. I now pay much more attention to my surroundings and make sure that the shoebox is always in tip top shape. You never know who's going to pop by!

Speaking of the shoebox... sometimes all I need a change of scenery.

The beginnings of a new centerpiece for my dining table (slash desk). Figuring out what else I want to add to it.

What changes have you made or are you making?

A whale of a sample sale

2011-10-11T16:29:00.009-04:00

Last weekend, one of my favorite brands, vineyard vines, held a sample sale in Greenwich, CT. On Friday it was invitation only and on Saturday the sale was open to the public. I was lucky to score two tickets to the former.

You may remember that I attended the sale two years ago. The deals were so amazing that I went a little crazy. I was much more careful this year as I've recently downsized, both in terms of living space and wardrobe capacity. I went in knowing about how much I wanted to spend and that I would only buy things I really saw myself wearing for years to come. I ended up with a few really great pieces.

This ruffled oxford goes perfectly with my Tie Gal Skirt and will look great under my Fuller Street V-Neck Sweater. Not to mention this will pair well with navy shorts or jeans.

I had my eye on this dress and matching blazer for months, and I was so thrilled to see these in my size at the sale. I'm glad I waited as this was a great investment for a small price. We all know I love a good match set, and I think this is incredibly chic. I can wear these together for a party or break them up for more casual occasions. Gold strappy heels and pearls will complete the look come spring. The dress straps are removable!

I threw away all but one pair of pajama pants when I moved into the shoebox back in June, planning to get a few new pairs once the weather cooled off. I included these Knit Lazy Pants in the "College Survival Kit" I made for my little sister back in August and have wanted a pair ever since. I was elated to scoop these up in my size and have already worn them.

Thank you to my dear friends at vineyard vines for thinking of me! I'm so glad I was able to attend and am so pleased with all of my finds.

Jewish girl sends Waspy cards

2011-10-10T11:28:00.011-04:00

Today I am having a serious Jewish Girl in Wasp's Clothing moment. We're well into October, which means I'm starting to think about the holidays. Currently, I am shopping for cards, which is always a point of contention for me. While I celebrate Hanukkah, most of my friends do not. I always feel a little stuck in the middle. My standard greeting in December is 'Happy Holidays' and I never feel awkward or offended if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas. I see the season in beautiful lights and generous spirits, not menorahs or trees. I don't feel comfortable sending cards specific to either holiday, so I always try to find a happy (holiday) medium.

Two years ago, I made these photo cards Snapfish. These were a bit Christmassy but lights strung on palm trees remind me of growing in Miami, so it felt like a nonsectarian choice to me.

Last year, I sent these Hello Lucky polar bear cards. Love these, but can't send the same thing two years in a row!

This year, I'd like to get a little creative and step outside of the box. I'm thinking of using Etsy as a resource for cards, gifts, and general holiday cheer. Lately, I've felt really inspired to be more crafty and resourceful.

Have you started shopping for cards yet? Do you have similar struggles to me this time of year?

Party Booth

2011-10-06T23:16:00.010-04:00

I just saw the Party Booth photos from the wedding and wanted to share a few with you...

The last two are my favorites. This was my first Party Booth experience and I thought it was a ton of fun! What a great idea for a wedding.

P.S. Though these were self taken with a remote control, I want to give major props to the event photographers, Studio 222! If you are in the Central Florida area and looking, I highly recommend!

Cocktail Party for 2

2011-10-05T12:07:00.015-04:00

My parents had lots of dinner parties when I was little. I loved mingling with all the guests and playing hostess. When it came time for me to go to bed, I insisted that every single guest come into my bedroom (all one at a time, of course) to bid me good night. Even if I didn't know their name. I'd tell my mom to send in the lady wearing the red high heels. Anything to stay up just a bit later. I never wanted to miss out on any of the fun.

My parents taught me two things about hosting that I try to apply to everything I do. 1) You should always have more food than you need; and 2) Presentation is everything. When I ate breakfast as a child, milk was served in a small pitcher next to my cereal bowl and syrup was served in a small pitcher next to my waffles, rather than the jugs they came from. My mom has a rule that no commercial containers should ever be on the table. This used to annoy me (we ran back and forth to the kitchen ten times for ketchup during family barbecues; one ramekin isn't enough for me, let alone eight of us) but now I see the point. It's something that takes little effort and time but instantly upgrades the setting and elevates the atmosphere.

It's many years later and my quarters are far smaller than that beautiful home on the sunny Coral Gables block, but I still really love to play hostess. As long as I'm living in The Shoebox, however, I can really only entertain one person at a time. So I decided to invite my gal pal BHB over for wine and appetizers to satiate my hunger for party planning.

I wrote this out initially so that I'd know what to buy at the market, but this sparked an idea that perhaps I'd like a mini chalkboard easel to display a menu for future home hosted happy hours.

The spread. I mixed and matched but I think the monograms and the pops of color made it ultimately Teddi.

I converted my personalized cutting board into a makeshift cheese platter. It worked out quite nicely, but I certainly need a new knife. The top cheese was some sort of fig and honey blend and it was really interesting.

My dad got me those gorgeous flowers at a hidden gem of a florist in the East Village. I live for big, beautiful blooms in a very simple vase. I always love a good excuse to use my monogrammed wine chiller.

These monogrammed wine glasses were a Hanukkah gift from AEG!

I surprised BHB with Baked by Melissa cupcakes for dessert!

We sat and ate and gabbed for hours and just had the best time. I have tons of leftovers! Who's coming over next?

Recent Reads

2011-10-04T23:15:00.011-04:00

As many of you know, I got a Nook for Hanukkah two years ago. Around the same time last year, I was given an iPad. It felt selfish to keep two eReaders so I gave Perri the Nook and I downloaded Nook for iPad, which I've gotten quite a lot of use out of. I always like to tell people what I'm reading and ask for recommendations in return. Maybe we can start a JGIWC book club?

Here's what I've read recently...

Skinny by Diana Spechler

The author is actually a friend of mine, and I'm just so proud of her. This book is clever and fresh and I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

Maine by J. Courtney Sullivan

While I think JCS is a great writer, I have to say that I didn't love this book, and I didn't love her first one, Commencement, either. While I think she developed the characters incredibly well, I find her stories to be very depressing and I left this book feeling a little empty.

Sisterhood Everlasting by Ann Brashares

This is the final installment of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants set. This book was a tearjerker - I rarely cry while reading, but this did me in. It was tough to read at times but I loved the movies and I think it's always nice to see how something ends.

Being Kendra: Cribs, Cocktails, and Getting my Sexy Back by Kendra Wilkinson

I couldn't not read this. We all know she's my favorite Playboy bunny and while this is far from a literary breakthrough, her honesty is refreshing and I love learning about her life.

Girls in White Dresses by Jennifer Close

If you feel like all of your friends are getting married and all you're getting is left in the dust, please read this book. If you are in your twenties and live in New York City, please read this book. Hell, even the engaged and married gals are going to like this one. It's written with a dry wit and is laugh out loud funny. I couldn't put it down and I'm actually sad it's over!

Currently, I'm reading Blueprints for Building Better Girls by Elissa Schappell and really enjoying it. What have you read lately? Do you have any suggestions for me?

In My Life, I Love You More

2011-10-03T08:53:00.014-04:00

This past weekend, I traveled to Orlando for the wedding of one of my dearest friends. I had the esteemed honor of being a bridesmaid. I can't believe it has come and gone; I feel like we talked about it for so long and it always seemed so far away and now, I'm so sad that it's over. It was a beautiful, intimate affair with lots of special details. I just had the best time. Here are some of my favorite photos!

The bride with most of her bridal party at the salon. We went to Kendall & Kendall in Winter Park, which is actually where I used to get my hair done before I moved up North.

The dress was chic, elegant, and understated. And she looked perfect in it.

Bridesmaids in the bathtub! I absolutely adore these ladies. We didn't all know one another prior but it was such a great group and we had a ton of fun. Our dresses are LulaKate.

The ceremony music was centered around the Beatles, which I absolutely loved. The wedding party walked down the aisle to "With a Little Help from my Friends", the bride walked down the aisle to "Here Comes the Sun" and we all exited to "Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da". The couple's first dance was to "In My Life".

This was the exact moment I began to cry. What a breathtaking bride!

They were married on a beautiful Florida fall day.

Such a happy couple!

I got to catch up with some sorority sisters that I don't get to see often, which was really lovely.

I loved this Charles Schultz quote framed next to the cake. "All you need is love. But, a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt." Among many other things, the bride and I share a serious love for Snoopy!

We had tons of fun with the party booth and I can't wait to see all the photos we took in it. I love this girl so much!

Sadly, the photos of me doing Thriller came out really blurry. Here I am dancing with the bride and the maid of honor. Her wedding is next month, and she's already assured me that her DJ knows to play Thriller! Love that all my girlfriends are making a point to play my song at their weddings. Feels like Kappa formal all over again!

A huge congratulations to S & J! Thank you so much for letting me be part of your big day!

P.S. I got the most amazing airbrush tan at Sun Mist in College Park and I promised the owner I'd recommend her to all my friends. Tell her Teddi sent you!

Shana Tovah, Shalom, and L'Chaim!

2011-09-28T15:58:00.009-04:00

First and foremost, I want to wish a VERY SWEET NEW YEAR to all of my fellow Members of the Tribe. May 5772 be the best yet!

I also want to wish a very happy anniversary to my parents, who are celebrating thirty one-derful years together today!

After I celebrate the new year, I'm heading to Florida for this gorgeous gal's wedding!

Wishes to all for a wonderful holiday and/or weekend! See you next week.

What would you do with an extra $100?

2011-09-27T10:34:00.020-04:00

There used to be a feature in a magazine I read called "What would you do with an extra $100?" and whomever submitted the best answer actually won the $100. I can't remember what magazine, though... I think it was in Real Simple... or perhaps it still runs in a magazine I no longer read... Does anyone else remember this?

Anyway. I was thinking about what I would do with an extra $100. The easy answer is that I'd finally buy that pair of Lululemon Astro Pants. I swear, I'm in that store several times a month but cannot bring myself to buy anything longer than the Biker Groove Short. I tend to exercise in as little clothing as possible, but I keep thinking I might like a pair of the longer pants for yoga in the winter. Right now, I wear Yogabela crops (which I LOVE).

However, if I were going to be a bit more creative, I'd use an extra $100 to buy a bunch of little fun things.

Candles always seem expensive to me - maybe because I have to buy them so often. I burn a candle in my apartment pretty much every day. Lately I've been switching between Yankee Candle Farmer's Market and Yankee Candle Maple Pancakes. I smelled this Illume Boulangerie Jar in Sweet Vanilla Cinnamon at Anthropologie and fell in love, but I'm trying to wait until I reeeally need it. $16.

I couldn't not purchase a Soul Cycle series with an extra $100. These classes are pretty pricey but SO amazing and I wish I were able to go more than a few times a month. It is far and away the most rewarding workout I get all week. $32 + $3 for shoe rental.

I live in these Victoria's Secret One Size Sexy Shorts at home and would love another pair. Beyond comfortable. Perfect for lounging and sleeping. $20.

I am in desperate need of a cute new notepad... I threw all mine away when I moved and as a result have nothing to jot down reminders on. I love this 'Get It Done' Notepad from Rifle Paper Co. How darling is that zebra? Bonus: the company is based out of Winter Park, FL... My old stomping grounds. $8.

I take snacks everywhere I go, and it sure would be nice to have something cute to store 'em in. I have granola bars and fruit snacks floating around in the bottom of every handbag I own. I'm loving this Lilly Pulitzer Reusable Sandwich and Snack Sack. The bright colors would make my treats easy to spot. $9.95.

...and with the rest of the money, I'd treat my mom, my dad and myself to Pumpkin Spice Lattes.

I want to know... what would you do with an extra $100?

A Hairy Situation

2011-09-26T18:53:00.001-04:00

Awhile back, someone left a kind comment about my hair and suggested I do a post about regimen. My hair has long been my best friend and my worst enemy - I love the color and how healthy it is but it's also it's thick and unruly and very high maintenance. It's been almost 27 years, but I think I've finally figured it out. I love to talk beauty, so I thought I'd share my favorite products with you.

I love traditional headbands, but it's nearly impossible for me to find one that fits comfortably. I improvise!

I don't use Ojon Full Detox Shampoo every time I wash, but my hair always feels incredible after I do. This is especially great for ridding buildup. (I use a LOT of hair spray. I did live in Texas, after all.) I follow this with Ojon Dry Recovery Hydrating Conditioner.

My mom has been going to the Fekkai salon in New York City as far back as I remember (even before we moved here), and in turn I've been using Fekkai products just as long. I've tried much of the line but the Essential Shea Conditioner is definitely my favorite. It's a super quencher to my rather dry tresses. I use it with the Essential Shea Shampoo.

I used to only wear my hair straight. Though that's no longer the case, I still need a great flat iron. Though expensive, the ghd Gold Professional 1" Styler has been my favorite of all the different brands I've tried. The box claims that it can also create curls and waves, but I honestly have no idea how to do that. It gets my hair pin straight and that's all I need.

I love that what I used to pay stylists at the Bumble & bumble Hair Bar at Bloomingdales 37 bucks to do, I can now do (for free!) at home. I have always had serious trouble with with traditional clip curling irons but I absolutely live for curling iron curls, so Sultra The Bombshell 1" was the ultimate solution and an awesome investment. Admittedly, it took me a while to get the hang of it and I still have a burn mark on my left wrist from a flub in February (WEAR LONG SLEEVES!!!), but I've gotten a whole lot better at this. I still work slowly to ensure perfection, but even so it takes a whole lot less time now that I'm used to it. Bonus: it's a great workout for your arms!

I saved the best for last, because none of the above would even matter if not for Bumble and bumble Does It All Spray. I use this every time I do my hair. When I straighten my hair, I separate it into very small sections and I spray this on right before using the flat iron. The difference it makes is huge. When I curl my hair, I also work in very small sections and spray this on right after each curl. It keeps everything in place without weighing down or hardening my hair. I used to use a Victoria's Secret hairspray but after trying it with this, I've made the permanent switch. Honestly, a bottle of this is more than twice the price of the VS but it's well worth the cost. I go to the Bumble & bumble salon here in New York and was taught about this by a stylist several years back. It's often hard to find but now that Sephora recently started carrying the line it should be much easier to locate now! If you take away anything from this blog post, trust me on this - Does It All is a game changer. Plain and simple.

Now, maybe you can help me... I'm always looking for a great heat protectant and/or hair cream to soften, defrizz, etc. Any suggestions?

And the winner is...

2011-09-23T10:54:00.003-04:00

Comment #48 - heather elizabeth! Congratulations!

Please contact me to get your prize!

To everyone else, thanks for playing! A special thanks to my friends at vineyard vines for generously hosting this giveaway! If you have a product you'd like to donate to a JGIWC giveaway, please email me!

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!

A Very Bendel Bash!

2011-09-22T00:15:00.000-04:00

Last night, my Junior League committee hosted our first event of the season, A Very Bendel Bash at none other than Henri Bendel!

My committee plans charity shopping events. This collaboration with Henri Bendel has become annual. In addition to cocktails and passed hors d'ouevres, guests received 15% off all purchases - cosmetics included - and 10% of all proceeds go back to the NYJL. Naturally, I had to treat myself to a few things! It's all in the name of a good cause...

I got Chanel Le Vernis Nail Colour in Peridot. I've had my eye on the greenish gold for months.

I also got this Trish McEvoy Portable Beauty Collection in Romance. I love the colors in this palette (I immediately tossed it in my new makeup bag) and the brushes are perfect for travel.

It was tough to restrain myself! There were so many adorable accessories but I held back. I just completed my closet switch (more on that later) and I'm trying to be incredibly picky about what I'm buying these days.

Thank you to my beautiful friends (and marvelous Mommy) for coming out to support my committee and I!

A whale of a giveaway!

2011-09-19T08:28:00.004-04:00

I'm so thrilled to announce that I've partnered up with one of my favorites, vineyard vines, to bring you a fabulous giveaway to start the season off right!

Up for grabs is one Argyle Sweater Tote from their new collection! Preppy perfection for both work and play.

To enter, please leave a comment about how you would style an outfit around this tote. (Hint: use vineyardvines.com for inspiration!)

I will draw a winner on Friday, September 23. GOOD LUCK!

Merchant's House Garden Party

2011-09-15T18:22:00.004-04:00

Last night, some girlfriends and I attended a garden party to benefit the Merchant's House Museum. Built in 1832, the Merchant's House is New York City's only 19th-century home preserved virtually intact, with the family's original furnishes and personal belongings.

As you can imagine, it costs quite a bit of money to maintain a building in Manhattan between restoration and conservation research projects. Though the soiree was held outside, we got to pass through the house and see all of the beautiful finishes and intricate details. For a mere moment it was like walking through history.

We enjoyed the combination of white wine and a nice breeze as we partook in what I imagine will be one of if not the last evening of outdoor cocktails this year. It was dark out and the party was packed! Sadly, this is the only photo we took. I wish I had taken a better picture of my hairdo... I did it myself and I gotta say, I was pretty proud.

Living in New York affords one to pick from endless charities and causes to support. I'm so glad this was among mine! Thanks to BGC, JGE and MEC for joining me!

My Birthright

2011-09-14T11:21:00.007-04:00

I just signed up for a Birthright trip.

Birthright, for anyone who's unfamiliar, is a FREE trip to Israel available to all Jews 18-26. Because I was born a Jew, it is my 'birthright' to visit Israel. And since I turn 27 in January, I'm about to 'expire'.

When I was 16, I was registered to go on an Israeli Teen Tour out of Dallas with all of my friends. The program allowed Jewish teens entering their junior year in high school to live in Israel for 6 weeks. Looking back, I'm almost surprised I agreed to it - I never went to sleep away camp (and no, I don't regret it). This was in 2001, when things in the Middle East took a turn for the worse and the trip was cancelled at the last minute. I was crushed, but I knew I'd find a way to get there someday.

Birthright has been in the back of my mind since I turned 18. There always seemed to be a reason not to go... I didn't want to leave my boyfriend, I had prior commitments, it was too hot in the summer, I wanted to go with my family instead of a bunch of strangers. But a winter trip is looming and I'm finally fresh out of excuses. That combined with my age combined with my family's urging meant I just couldn't avoid it anymore.

During the online registration portion this morning, I started to feel really nauseated. At one point I had to literally get up and walk away (and we all know I live in a shoebox, so I couldn't go very far). I managed to get through all the steps and pay my deposit (which is fully refunded once you're back on US soil, by the way), but I can't help wondering why it all made me feel sick to my stomach.

And then I remembered. I don't have many Jewish friends. I've changed a lot since the last time I was all set to go on a Israel trip. First of all, I knew everyone going (I will know NO one should I get in and go) and second, I was really good at the Jewish thing back then. Ever since I've moved to New York, I haven't felt all that connected. I actually walked out of the last Jewish happy hour I went to. I felt like fish out of water. It feels weird to blame the city, because I always thought it was supposed to be the mecca. But I never dated a non-Jew until I moved here. And I am absolutely, positively sure that I will never meet the right guy here. I've long left the comfort zone that I knew for most of my life and now I'm not sure how to get back in.

And then I called Nana to tell her that I registered... and she became so animated and said things like, "The bible opens up and comes to life" (to which I smiled) and "no one cares if you're wearing designer or if your clothes match" (to which I rolled my eyes). She kept saying how proud she is of me. To which I groaned.

Oh, well. Let's see if I 'get in' before I waste any more time being dramatic.

Cheap Thrills

2011-09-13T09:51:00.011-04:00

A penny saved is a penny earned and lately, with the excessive expenses that seem to come along with being 26, I'm pinching all of mine. Though I haven't been shopping much lately, I've noticed a pattern when I do. Much of what I'm buying is under $20!

My dad and I ventured out to the suburbs on Saturday and stumbled upon a Yankee candle store. I can't remember the last time, if ever, I've been in one. I was immediately drawn to the Fall scents - it's always been my favorite part about the season because they can be enjoyed in any weather (ahem, Florida). It's damn near impossible to choose - they're all so delicious. I decided to get two, which didn't make it that much easier. Finally, with some help from Pops, I settled on Farmer's Market and Maple Pancakes. I got the small jars, which are $10.99 each. In thinking about it, I can't believe I haven't ever given these as gifts. Who wouldn't love to receive this?

Did anyone else know that Yankee Candle makes lip balm? I sure didn't, and it was a sweet surprise upon taking my candles to checkout. Cinnamon & Sugar is one of my favorite combinations on earth, right up there with Pink & Green, Snoopy & Woodstock. I'm now regretting not grabbing an armful because this flavor isn't available on their website and I worry it's discontinued. For $3.99, my lips are in heaven.

I love green and have been wanting a dressy dress in this hue for quite some time. I did extensive research online and at various department stores, but ultimately decided that I'm not in a place to spend hundreds of dollars on a colored frock that doesn't serve a specific purpose (IE, bridesmaid dress). I ordered this one from Forever 21 for the fair price of $19.80. I figure it'll look great with nude or gold pumps and if it's too small or unflattering on me, I can pass it along to a pal or my little sis without feeling like I invested too much.

Though I think the one thing that's kept my spirits high for a small price is a good ol' Pumpkin Spice Latte. Tall, decaf, nonfat, no whip.

Diane von Furstenberg Spring 2012

2011-09-12T07:43:00.002-04:00

I attended Diane von Furstenberg's show over the weekend. It was my first time sitting in the audience during fashion week. From seeing mere rows behind Susan Sarandon to being directly across from Anna Wintour (who, less than five minutes after arriving, disappeared) it was quite the star studded event. Here are some of the best photos I took.

Logo over the runway.

Final model walk. There were so many amazing looks but it's a very difficult venue to photograph (unless you're a professional near the back!) so unfortunately, I don't have close ups of the clothes.

Models looping around the end of the runway.

The models looked so mad. If I got to walk the runway for anyone, let alone DVF, you couldn't pull the smile off my face!

Diane makes her entrance, handing out American flags to audience members. Very appropriate.

Diane hugging Valentino. Very cute.

Diane with her head designer, Yvan Mispelaere.

It was an amazing experience and I was honored to be among the crowd. God bless America and New York City!

FNO

2011-09-08T23:01:00.008-04:00

This is the first year that I've gone out for Fashion's Night Out. The past few years I've always had prior commitments and quite honestly, the thought of it makes me shudder. I'm incredibly claustrophobic and it's such a crazy night in the city. I decided it was about time to see what all the commotion was about. My dad and I went together - he's in the industry and wanted to stop by a few of the designers he works with. Plus, he's a power shopper - doesn't like to look or dilly dally. We get what we want, we pay, and we get the hell out of there. Perfect for this particular evening.

We attempted to stop by the Missoni for Target pop up shop... But this was the line. It kept going. And so did we.

Store-wise, the highlight of the night was probably Tory Burch. In part because I got the awesome gift with purchase with my new pair of Revas and in part because Tory was there! She's so stunning. My dad asked me if I wanted to talk to her and I said no. We passed her on our way out. She wasn't crowded by people, wasn't really talking to anyone, and looked right at me. And I just smiled, like an idiot. I regretted it the moment we got outside. I don't know what I would've said to her, but I should've said something. Hopefully I'll have another chance down the road. (Another regret - not getting anything from the Milk Truck, parked right outside TB!)

After a few more stops, we headed uptown. I looked a whole lot but didn't buy much else. I got rid of so much clothing when I moved and don't really have anything appropriate for this in between weather. I'll have to pick up a few things this weekend. I attempted to meet Bryan Greenberg (whom I've LONG had a crush on) at Bloomingdales but wouldn't you know I missed him. He was in the Men's denim section to promote his show, How to Make it in America, in which he plays an aspiring denim designer. (It's back October 2! Watch the Season 2 trailer here.)

All in all, a fun night, but I'd be lying if I didn't say that I was relieved to come home!

Edit: I just found out via Twitter that I also missed Sophia Bush at DVF! She was there after I was! WAH!

We'll always remember our dear Kappa days

2011-09-07T12:15:00.006-04:00

I've been feeling very nostalgic for my sorority lately. I think it's a combination of my removal from it and the time of year. No matter how old I am or what I'm doing, September always marks the start of a new school year. I see bid day photos of my little sister's friends on Facebook and think, "8 years ago, that was me!". And then I can't believe it's been the better part of a decade since I tore open my bid card and ran down Greek Row.

Last year I put aside my Kappa commitments shortly after becoming very active in the New York Junior League. I knew I couldn't do both wholeheartedly and it was not a decision I arrived at lightly but was absolutely the right choice for me. I owe who I am today to two factors: my parents and my sorority. That is not something I will soon forget.

Before I put down my blue and blue gavel, I fought hard for the resurrection of the NYC alumnae association. When I moved to the city, I made my first few friends though events organized by Kappa for recent college grads who'd made the big move to the Big Apple. My best friend, who got engaged in May, recently asked me to be her Maid of Honor. She wrote me a beautiful note, among which she said that she's thankful every day that Kappa brought us together. Couldn't have put it better myself. This organization continues to be a huge part of me, regardless of my level of involvement.

I'm happy to say that my efforts paid off and after years of neglect the alumnae association here is again up and running and better than ever. Though I haven't been able to make it to the last couple of events, I do hope to make it to a few in the fall. These two things I know to be true: it's not 4 years, it's FOR LIFE; and from the outside looking in, you could never understand it but from the inside looking out you could never explain it.

In the meantime, perhaps I'll pacify my yearning for the Wise Old Owl with this fabulous kate spade bag?

Happy Labor Day!

2011-09-05T21:58:00.005-04:00

I hope everyone enjoyed the holiday weekend! I escaped to Florida for a few days. I didn't take many pictures but here are a few Kodak moments...

With my beautiful Aunt at her birthday dinner.

Publix birthday cake! This was like my childhood on a plate and left me infinitely happy.

My dad and I with my cousin's pup.

I'm so sad that summer has come to a close, but I'm ready to take on fall. I have a really good feeling about it.

Taking on the world in Tory, from flip flops to boots

2011-09-02T09:57:00.002-04:00

I really enjoyed the day to day aspect of this summer, more so than I have of any I've spent here. I love that I had one trip planned out east, but found myself there four times. I love that I didn't have to travel further than Florida. I love that New York didn't see endless sweltering heat or excessive rain. I love that I worked out a lot and slept a lot. It was the most relaxed summer I can remember having in a long, long time.

But... I'm ready for fall. A new beginning. A clean slate. I really need the big picture to fall into place.

Wishing you a wonderful final weekend of summer... I'll be in Florida with family, soaking up the sunshine.

Happy Labor Day!

P.S. I bought the boots yesterday. Bring it on, September.

When is enough enough?

2011-09-01T09:09:00.002-04:00

This scene from Will & Grace always makes me howl with laughter. It crossed my mind last night when I was lying in bed wondering when enough is enough. When is it?

New York has a knack for making me feel insufficient. It is a rat race and at times an unbelievably difficult place to live. Though as much as I blame this city, I know there are other contributing factors. What's to say there aren't the same pressures in Dallas, Denver or Dover?

I'm Spirit Chair of my Junior League committee and volunteer whenever I can, but I wonder if I should do more. Yesterday I went to yoga in the morning, took a long walk in the afternoon, went to the gym in the evening, and I still didn't feel completely satisfied. And no matter how many people I meet, it never quite feels like I know enough.

Is it self-inflicted or do you have these silly worries too?

Too cool for school

2011-08-29T11:01:00.003-04:00

Sigh. Today is Perri's first day of college and I sure am missing her. Hugging her goodbye and driving away was one of the toughest things I've ever had to do, but this is the circle of life.

Her dorm is absolutely precious so I have to share a few photos. They don't do the room justice as it's a tough space to photograph. But it has tall ceilings, a big closet, and is a huge step up from where I was living as a freshman!

Her cute bed and a photo strip including a few snapshots of yours truly!

Love this PBTeen Dottie Dry Erase Calendar Wall Decal! I wish that had been available when I was in school!

I miss you already lil bunny foo foo!

PAG's College Survival Kit!

2011-08-24T20:34:00.010-04:00

Tomorrow, I am taking my baby sister to college. I can hardly believe that it was reversed just eight years ago. I am ball of emotion - so much is rushing at me all at once. That time flies, that everything is changing, that she is still five years old in my eyes and always will be and it makes moments and times like these tough for me.

Well, we couldn't let her leave empty-handed and we take gifts pretty seriously in my family. I wanted keep it light and fun rather than super sentimental. So, I put this together...

A college survival kit!

Rather than wrap up her other gifts, I thought it'd be more fun to put them in something she can use. Every college student should have a monogrammed L.L.Bean Boat and Tote! I have this same bag and use it for my laundry.

I couldn't send her to college without a great book, so I chose the one that seemed most appropriate... U Chic!

The second I spotted these Vineyard Vines Printed Whales Knit Lazy Pants, I knew she couldn't live without them. So cute, so collegiate, and much like her big sis, she has love for the whale!

What better to remind her of home than the Kate Spade Streets of New York Small Henrietta Cosmetic Bag?

What do you think? I know I wouldn't mind receiving a gift like this! (If I do say so myself!)

Perri, I love you and am so proud of you. You truly make me the luckiest big sister in the world.

For future reference

2011-08-23T22:06:00.003-04:00

I had kind of a crappy day so I'm going to make a list of all the things that cheered me up so that I'm reminded of how good my life really is when I'm feeling like this.

Waking up to a birthday party invitation
Sweet emails from my dad
Scoring a lovely Lilly dress on sale
Finding out I'm going to the US Open (multiple times!)
A girlfriend sending a funny blog post my way because she knew I needed a good laugh
Dinner with The Lunch Belle
Cheer up texts from friends
Hitting the gym
Working on my new position for Junior League

Vent over.

NYIGF

2011-08-17T13:36:00.010-04:00

The New York International Gift Fair is happening this week and I've been lucky enough to walk through and discover some fun new brands, which is one of my favorite things to do. It has also been incredibly inspirational in the way of home decor - I have a lot of ideas about how to spruce up my humble abode. The only downside is that this particular fair is so huge and I'm left feeling stressed about all the good stuff I know I missed.

Alas, some of the highlights from what I DID see:

I loved Malabar Bay - apparel and accessories in bright, Lilly-esque colors and prints.

Totally fell for this top hat seahorse by iomoi. I saw it on a guest towel in the Matouk booth and was thrilled to find out it is available on many other items, including this canvas personalized pillow.

My obsession with delicate jewelry and the display of dainty turquoise necklaces lured me into the Katie Diamond booth. This one has been officially added to my wish list!

Last but certainly not least, I have to give a shout out to my friend Carrie Dunham and her genius handbag line. These clutches are designed to have interchangeable covers, but can also be worn wiithout. The covers can be monogrammed! I'm only having trouble deciding which color I want. (The monogram is a must.)

For more on the NYIGF, I suggest checking out Habitually Chic. That girl has got it covered!

A happy home

2011-08-15T22:46:00.006-04:00

I hosted a housewarming party last month to celebrate my new home with some of my favorite people.

I live in a shoebox. Preparing for the guests in my teeny tiny kitchenette.

I served fruits, cheeses, veggies, nuts, and of course - Baked by Melissa cupcakes.

I was so thrilled that many of my girlfriends made it to my party.

I'm so glad that my friends and family crowded around (literally) to help warm my new home. We shared wine and laughs, and each of my guests came with a fabulous hostess gift in hand - including but not limited to a kate spade ring holder, monogrammed cocktail napkins, and elephant paraphernalia. Do they know me or what? Class acts. I decided that I love throwing parties but this space certainly isn't big enough to do it on a regular basis. I'm going to have to find a co-hostess with a big apartment! Any takers?

Friday Favorites

2011-08-12T16:43:00.007-04:00

Glee 3D! We had the best time. They sang almost all of the songs I wanted to hear. I'm dying to see it again.

Victoria's Secret. I bought this bikini online and the pieces shipped separately. According to the USPS website, the top was delivered... but it's not here. A quick call to VS and they're sending me another one via 3 day air. Which means if I make it out to the beach next weekend, this little baby can come with me!

16 Handles! Think Pinkberry, but with a lot more flavors (16!) and fully self-serve. I don't know about you, but I think frozen yogurt places often put WAY too much in one cup. I love that I get to decide EXACTLY how much of everything I want. I am a control freak and this concept is incredibly appealing to me. My kinda place.

Soul Cycle - to work off the 16 Handles! The classes are pretty pricey so I don't take them very often but when I do go, I love it.

Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

It's all in the details

2011-08-11T15:20:00.009-04:00

No matter where I am or what I'm doing, I love coming home. It's a feeling I never knew at my last apartment, which I absolutely hate to admit because I lived there for four years. I've been here two months and it feels more like mine than that place ever did.

I got these pillows at Cape Madras. (They're the travel size in Stockbridge.) I love the turquoise and Jonathan Adler pillow, but I wanted one more element to my bed. I saw these and knew were it. After all, it wouldn't truly be my home without a little bit of madras.

It also wouldn't truly be my home without a small piece of the Lone Star State. I found the perfect little spot for my Texas bluebell magnet.

I can't believe I didn't include this in my original apartment post! My parents gave me this gorgeous Kartell Louis Ghost Chair in white by Philippe Starck. It's probably the single best piece of furniture in my apartment but also the most underrated one... it's not in a great spot for sitting, so mostly my Palermo lives on it. My parents have six of these at their dining room table. I think it's safe to say this is my family's favorite means of seating. The dog pillow is precious, too - I'll have to find out where they got it...

I think it's the littlest things that make our homes truly special; don't you?

FALL-ing in love

2011-08-09T17:59:00.005-04:00

How many seasonal puns can I fit into one blog?

This was in my inbox this morning. I can't stop looking at it. I love the outfit overall - the contrast of the chunky sweater and the slim pant is a great look. But those boots are really what I'm after. I own a pair of brown Tory boots that I bought 4 years ago. They're beautiful and classic - I get the heels redone every year and they've held up pretty well. Then again, it's been 4 years I think it may be time to bite the bullet. I adore every detail - the color, the turnstyle lock logo, the exposed gold zipper. Still, these are very expensive and last time I bought a pair of Tory boots, I got about 40% off. I have no discount hookups this time around.

I definitely need to invest in some key pieces for when the weather cools down. I decided to write down everything I buy to avoid picking up anything I really don't need. I'm not caring for any of the Fall trends so I think I'm going to stick with what I know best - black cigarette pants, dark skinny jeans, crew neck sweaters, colorful cardigans, ballet flats, riding boots, and tailored dresses. What are you looking forward to wearing when the leaves change colors?

My Vineyard Vines Tie Gal skirt arrived in the mail today. It fits like a dream! I can't wait to wear it.

What I'm FALL-ing for

2011-08-04T14:11:00.010-04:00

These days, my wardrobe is all about quality over quantity. I'm buying less, but I'm buying better. I am in dire need of new clothes for Fall. I already have my eye on a few things...

I fell for this skirt when I first saw it at the Vineyard Vines Fall Press Preview. I absolutely love the mix of baby pink and navy blue.

Nothing new here, but I think I should invest in a good pair of fall flats. These are always a perfect fit for my narrow feet.

This etherial J. Crew dress would go well with my pair of nude Prada pumps and I always feel pretty in purple.

I'm picturing this Lilly top under an ivory sweater or tucked into a vibrant green skirt.

I usually go for skinny jeans but I like that these 7 For All Mankinds have a bit of a dressy look. Great with heels and a frilly top.

Because a girl can dream.

But there ain't no cure for the summertime blues

2011-08-02T22:07:00.004-04:00

The truth is that I live for summer. I believe in perpetual summer. I grew up in Florida, where summer is the sole season. I love the sunshine, the palm trees, the water. It's home to me.

But the other truth is that I'm a little frustrated. New York is quiet in the summer and I've been getting away when I can. I read other blogs about the fun things people are doing and I can't help but feel a bit boring. I think it's because for the first time in a long time, I really feel at home and I've allowed myself to settle into a comfortable schedule. I'm realizing that sometimes a rut is a routine with a few extra letters.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to fall. It always feels like a fresh start, a clean state, and still holds novel to me. I got rid of the majority of my cold weather wardrobe, so I am looking forward to shopping. (I'm all shopped out now. Have to hold off until September or October. It's just too hot.) I'm looking forward to Junior League starting up again. I got my first choice committee this year - planning charity shopping events. I'm thrilled. I'm looking forward to parties and meeting new people and the simultaneous calm and bustle the season lends to the city.

I feel guilty saying all of this - like I'm cheating on a lover - because summer is everything to me. And I'm really enjoying it. But I need to shake things up a bit. I've forgotten what excitement feels like.

Here's to remembering.

Friday Favorites

2011-07-29T08:41:00.011-04:00

Lately, I'm really loving...

Wearing my hair au natural.

Light cotton dresses to beat the heat. Picked this one up at Target.

I've finally discovered Lululemon, the yoga mecca. Lord help me. (And yes, these shorts are among what I've bought. Perfect length!)

Everything Clif Bar. Recent favorites include their new crunch bars and the minis, to stash in my tote. I don't like going anywhere without a little snack in tow and at 100 calories each, these are perfect.

Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

The Age of Aquarius

2011-07-27T23:12:00.008-04:00

Today I was wearing my Alex Woo Little Signs necklace and it dawned on me that I didn't even really know what my sign means. Sometimes I call 1-800-555-TELL to get my horoscope (it's free) but I never really pondered the true essence of Aquarius.

So I looked it up.

According to Essortment... Aquarius is symbolized by the water bearer. Their ruling planet is Uranus and their element is air. Aquarians are very dependable and honest. They are very honorable and when they make a decision, they stick by it. They are very considerate of others and their opinions. They are a definite individual, sometimes to the point that they have difficulty working with others. They are very independent with a very active, sometimes overactive, imagination. Aquarians are most often attracted to Gemini, Libra, Pisces, and other Aquarians.

I gotta say, that sorta sounds a lot like me. From being a water baby right down to the people I'm attracted to.

What's your sign?

The Nana Diaries

2011-07-25T17:17:00.013-04:00

This past weekend I visited my beloved Nana in Florida. She lives in Sarasota, a beautiful, beachy city on the Southwest coast of the state and there are few better ways for me to relax than to escape there for a few days.

Nana and I spent our days eating, shopping, and playing rummikub. I also had the pleasure of taking a dip in the pool and sitting in the sun every morning. We had the best time. Many of you got to enjoy her quips via my #nanatweets on Twitter. Nana is one of the funniest and feistiest people I know. I'm pretty sure I inherited all of my sass from her. And I think if my not-so-secret desire of starring in a Bravo reality show ever materializes, I'll have to work her into the contract. Jill Zarin's mother gives great advice, sure, but my Nana is a hoot.

I only took two photos while I was there...

Dinner at Bonefish Grill.

Brunch at the Ritz.

...but found a lot more than that of little JGIWC. Here's my favorite:

What can I say? I love to go and I hate to leave. I feel so blessed to have a grandmother as wonderful as mine, who is constantly teaching me and inspires me every time I see her. Nana, I showed you how to use the internet (again) so I sure hope you're reading this! I LOVE YOU! Thank you for being YOU!

Floridays

2011-07-22T06:57:00.003-04:00

Currently sitting in terminal 5 at JFK, enjoying egg whites, my iPad, and the comeback of sophisticated travel.

Off to Florida for a few days! Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!

P.S. I wrote back to those of you who have email addresses attached to your user name, but to everyone else - thank you so much for the kind comments. You all brought that biggest smiles to my face. I am speechless and so touched.

Please update your address books!

2011-07-20T20:36:00.001-04:00

My new email address is tag@jgiwc.com!

Why I've been holding back

2011-07-19T22:13:00.002-04:00

At a recent yoga class, the instructor asked us if we could have one thing in great abundance that would make our life significantly better, what would it be?

I wished for faith.

There are often times when I want to spill my guts here - the way I used to - but it's hard. I feel stymied. I know my posts lately have been shallow... but only because in a recent post that went just a tiny bit deeper, I referred to depending on girlfriends for dinner dates and was met with a comment informing me that I'm still single because I'm a 'heifer'. (Their words - not mine. I wouldn't dream of using that term to describe anyone.)

And of course, a number of loyal friends and readers rushed to my defense, for which I am so grateful. The good always outweighs the bad. Always.

I know that being a writer means putting myself out there and opening myself up to constant criticism. And I believe it's worth it. The first comment I ever received on here was negative (and extremely offensive). But look how far I've come. And I know that the internet is for two things: porn and complaining (thank you One Tree Hill). Yet somehow, I am still taken aback every time I receive malicious feedback. I can completely understand why people wouldn't enjoy this blog - but I will never understand why they can't just stop reading and move on rather than taking the time to write mean, spiteful things. The pen is mightier than the sword and by publishing this on the internet - I know I'm asking for it. That knowledge doesn't make the insults less hurtful, unfortunately. I wish it did.

Jewish Girl in Wasp's Clothing is a labor of love and the gift that keeps giving. I just wanted to let you know that it may take me a little while, but I'll get back there.

Thanks for being patient with me while I wait for a little faith.

At long last, Tour de Teddi!

2011-07-17T16:35:00.021-04:00

The housewarming party is over, the new art is hung, and I'm finally ready to share my humble abode with all of you!

I live in a studio that's around 300 square feet. I have arranged the photos below to take you on a 360° tour. Enjoy!

The shelf in my front entryway. The porcelain elephant is actually a Jonathan Adler Christmas tree ornament.

The jewelry box is from Pottery Barn (its actually monogrammed on top) and the monogrammed print is Jack and Lulu.

My wardrobe holds sweaters, shoes, and gym/yoga clothes.

La touche finale! My dad hung these on the wall for me today. Click the photo to enlarge. I love this combination... Owls for Kappa, my initials, Miami postcards, a few of my favorite quotes, and the middle piece is just pure perfection. We found it this afternoon. This must be the place. So indicative of both my life and my home right now.

The couch and pillows are West Elm. The throw is Burberry.

The tray is Preppy Cards and the candle is from Anthropologie. (I only burn candles that smell like food. This one is angel food scented... yum!)

I don't have a traditional desk, so this does double duty. It serves as both a dining surface and my little writing haven.

Vintage Beatles posters. We're big moptop fans in my family!

My bedding is Lilly Pulitzer and the elephant pillow is Jonathan Adler.

My vanity. The top opens up to reveal another mirror and makeup storage.

Some of my photographs and trinkets... and a framed card that says "Hello from the Hamptons".

A few more photographs and trinkets.

My kitchenette!

Monogrammed wine chiller, soap and lotion dispensers, and a dishwaster bottle. So much fun. The wine chiller is Nico and Lala; all others are Preppy Cards.

The elephant trivet is Jonathan Adler; the canisters are Orla Kiely for Target.

It was nearly impossible to get a decent bathroom shot - this is the best I could do. The tissue box and toothbrush cup are old school Lilly and the turquoise bath towels are Lacoste.

Bags, baubles, and closets!

It's a bit smaller than my old place but so much warmer. I absolutely love living here. It is a happy home indeed.

Playing house (and lots of cupcakes!)

2011-07-14T17:59:00.005-04:00

Today, I have been prepping for the housewarming party I'm hosting tomorrow evening. When I moved into my first New York City apartment, I only had 3 friends here so I never even bothered. I'm so looking forward to celebrating my new home (and new beginnings!) with some of my closest friends and family. It's a teeny tiny apartment, so I'm just hoping that not everyone shows up at once!

I made it an 'open house' so that people can stop by as they please, and I imagine that many of my guests will either be coming from or heading to dinner. I'm serving a few of my favorite things...

Cupcake Vineyards Sauvignon Blanc

(I served this at my birthday party as well and it was a big hit! I buy it by the case from Marketview Liquor... so delicious and what a deal!)

Baked by Melissa cupcakes

(These are less than 45 calories each and absolutely delicious. These appeal to me more than any other cupcake because they're so teeny tiny so you can have a few and try a variety. My favorite flavors are chocolate chip pancake and cinnamon. Yum!)

I promise to post apartment (and party!) photos next week. Have a wonderful weekend!

Summer Staple

2011-07-12T22:30:00.003-04:00

Every summer, I find a non-Lilly, non-Milly dress that's equal parts sweet and sexy. And then I proceed to wear it to death. The perfect dress for a date (not that I'm going on any), cocktails, a night out with the girls, a party... you get the picture.

Last summer, I lived in this Phillip Lim dress. So comfy and so chic. I found it on sale at Bergdorfs and got so much wear out of it. It ties at the back of the neck and has a bra like closure across the back. Fabulous. It no longer fits me properly so it now belongs to a good friend... I'm just happy it has a good home and that I'll get to see it once in awhile!

My summer 2011 dependable dress is this BCBG number. I'll be honest - it's rare that I pay retail for clothing. My parents are both in the fashion industry and I have a knack for finding designer deals so I've been lucky to acquire a lot of beautiful pieces for pennies on the dollar. I saw this dress at Lord & Taylor back in the spring and fell in love. I've done a complete wardrobe overhaul in the past few months and have gotten rid of the majority of my clothing. By the time I got back to Lord and Taylor to take the plunge, there were only two dresses left... luckily one of them fit! Frock fate. I did something I rarely do - paid full price - and it was worth every cent. I've already worn it 3 or 4 times and plan on wearing it tons more before Labor Day.

Do you have a summer staple?

What's in JGIWC's bag?

2011-07-07T08:28:00.006-04:00

Today I'm wearing my Palermo GM. I love this bag. It holds so much and goes with everything. Here's what's in it.

Clockwise, starting at left:

Lilly Pulitzer umbrella This doesn't work very well, but it's cute and small and (sorta) gets the job done in a sunshower.
Vera Bradley lunch bag This is from college! I still use it for snacks and sandwiches.
kate spade flat pouch I love this newspaper print they did - so much that I also have the matching iPad cover and the clutch. This has all the essentials in it: lip balm, kate spade twirl perfume rollerball, bronzer, Smythson notebook, so on and so forth. Come to think of it, this should get a post of its own.
J. Crew cardigan Very lightweight and goes with a lot. I rarely go anywhere without a cardigan. This particular style is on sale and I'm thinking of picking up another color (or three).
Lilly Pulitzer Paley sunglasses These were gifted to me when I went to the Martha show. I love the pink detail and the bamboo shaped sides.
Kappa Kappa Gamma luggage tag There's no particular reason I'm carrying this around. It got tossed in my bag when I was moving and picking up the last little things around my old apartment, and apparently it hasn't come out since.
Prada Saffiano wallet Classic and the special texture of the leather makes it practically scratch resistant.
Vera Bradley eyeglass case Holds my DVF glasses which I wear for reading and computer work. I love cornflower blue.
Hamptons taxi card and train ticket to Southampton Waaaaahhhhh.

New beginnings and lovely labels

2011-07-05T15:30:00.008-04:00

Settling into my new home has really kicked summer off to a great start. This will mark the fifth I spend in NYC, having spent the previous four in my last apartment. The new surroundings and feeling of a fresh start have all been welcome changes.

It's a work in progress. My art is waiting to be hung on the walls and my Wii is waiting to be hooked up. I have yet to find the perfect flower vase and would like to frame a few more photos. My housewarming party is in less than two weeks (!) so I'm confident I'll figure it all out by then.

In the meantime, I am now able to officially send mail from my new residence, thanks to these babies:

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Having these printed with my new address really make me feel like I'm home. Looking forward to shipping in style.

The mailing labels and return address labels are both from Preppy Cards.

How I spent the holiday weekend

2011-07-04T15:44:00.005-04:00

HAPPY 4TH! GOD BLESS AMERICA!

Headed out East

2011-07-01T00:18:00.000-04:00

Wishing you a safe, sunny, and spectacular 4th!

Speedy gets stationery

2011-06-29T11:13:00.015-04:00

My friend Hopsy recently hosted a Preppy Cards giveaway, but I had actually already ordered my own set. When I was moving from my old apartment into this one, I got rid of all my piecemail stationery and quickly realized I was left with practically nothing. I decided to consolidate and order one set of notecards to use for everything - correspondence, thank yous, et cetera. My first and only stop was Preppy Cards. I knew I wanted to use my initials rather than my name, but I went into the picking process unsure of design. After all, there are so many good ones. The Jack Roger, the seahorse, the Kappa key, to name a few of my favorites. But at the end of the day, I had to choose Speedy.

A little backstory here... Speedy is like my pet. She belonged to my mother first - my parents actually drove up to Palm Beach in the late 70s to get her. You couldn't buy Louis Vuitton in Miami back then. As you can see, Speedy is old and decrepit these days... she probably belongs in a museum somewhere but resides in my closet instead. My mother all but begged to buy me a new one, to which I politely declined. No way was I replacing that bag. In the end, I settled on a Palermo GM, which I use almost every single day. Of course, I still take Speedy out for a spin now and then. That bag means so much to me. It's one of the first things my mom and dad ever bought together. I will never, ever get rid of it. I'll probably be buried with it. Kidding. Maybe.

I decided to do my initials in turquoise as an ode to my new humble abode. Here's the end result...

Isn't it perfect? If you're attached to a bag as well... perhaps your Hermes Birkin, or your Longchamp tote, or your Nantucket basket... you too can can have these iconic images etched into your stationery. Or you choose from the 300 plus other designs... because truly, there isn't a bad one in the bunch.

P.S. Use code HOPSY in the special instructions box now through July 15 to receive 15% off your order.

Congratulations!

2011-06-28T22:22:00.003-04:00

Congratulations are in order...

...to my baby sister, who graduated high school AND went to her senior prom last Friday!

...and to my parents, who moved to NYC today! We are now all FULL-TIME residents of the city so nice they named it twice!

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

2011-06-22T23:01:00.005-04:00

Isn't it funny how in the worst of your days, you see the best of your friends?

I didn't grow up in one city. I don't really have the luxury of childhood friends. I keep in close touch with two people - the first friend I ever made in preschool, and my best friend from elementary school. Actually, she just got engaged and I'm a bridesmaid in her wedding. I am beyond thankful for both of these relationships.

I rely heavily on the people I've met and the friendships I've made within the past five to eight years because I don't have those hometown connections. And I have really lucked out. I have the most incredible girls in my life, and I can literally count on all of my finger and toes the female friendships I consider to be quality and real and priceless. There are no words to describe how much these women mean to me.

The past few months have been challenging, and I believe it's in those tough moments that you see the light. You learn who the true people in your life are. Almost every single person who I considered to be a friend stepped up to the plate and was really, truly there for me. It was the bright spot in my otherwise gloomy days. It was also a good lesson to learn.

I want to take this moment to thank them. They know who they are, but they'll never know how much I love them.

Turquoise Touches

2011-06-19T20:18:00.008-04:00

I'm all moved in but still decorating and not quite ready to share photos yet. I think I've mentioned before that turquoise is my favorite stone and one of my favorite colors, so naturally it was a shade I wanted a lot of in my new apartment as I already own quite a bit of blue. I'm still looking for a few more special pieces in my beloved hue. Here are some I'm thinking of adding to the mix.

Thinking I could use this farmer's market basket on my kitchenette counter or on my dining table. I'm wondering if it's big enough to hold a few pears.

Would love to whip up summery drinks in this hobnail pitcher. I really like the combination of unique design and striking color... it's a lot, but not too much.

I got rid of all my vases before I moved. The color on this corinth vase is a bit light but I absolutely love the silhouette. I think it would pair perfectly with white roses (my favorite flower).

To a deluxe apartment in the sky

2011-06-15T22:07:00.000-04:00

Please excuse my absence... I'm in the process of moving! I will be back soon with pictures of the new pad. I can't wait to show you.

I've seen the lights go out on Broadway

2011-06-13T14:23:00.002-04:00

You probably wouldn't look at me and think I'm a girl who cries over basketball. As game 6 came to a close, I sat in bed and sobbed. Sometimes I'll surprise you like that.

The Miami Heat broke my heart into a thousand pieces last night. They played like I felt: careless, defeated, and like they'd already lost. They gave up. We all just gave up.

Life is a series of peaks and valleys. I always say that when you're down, there's no where to go but up. Sometimes, however, you don't realize quite how far you've fallen.

So here's to the upward battle. We've been champions before and will surely rise again.

JGIWC's Not Bummer Summer

2011-06-07T21:42:00.005-04:00

Last summer was pretty bad. Pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty bad. Summer is my absolute favorite season (for the first 13 years of my life, it was the only one I knew) and I'm determined to make this one a good one, come hell, high water or even (God forbid) a Heat loss.

I'm off to a good start...

Took a trip to Florida to visit The Nana...

Since there are no men in my life, I depend on my gal pals for dinner dates, such as this beauty above...

Celebrated the beginning of summer at the End of Year party with some of my favorite Junior Leaguers...

More to come. Off to cheer on my boys. LET'S GO HEAT!

One more photo to add to the previous post...

2011-06-05T20:53:00.000-04:00

LOVE YOU!

Wedding Wednesday - CONGRATS AEG!

2011-06-01T09:14:00.003-04:00

This Wedding Wednesday post is dedicated to my best friend, AEG. She got engaged to the man of her dreams last week and I couldn't be happier for her!

We have been through absolutely everything together and I just can't believe that we're all grown up and SHE'S GETTING MARRIED! She and her fiance give me hope that true love exists and maybe my prince charming is somewhere out there!

There is no better cyber toast than to take a walk down photo memory lane...

Congratulations and cheers to my favorite girl! I will gladly settle for second love of your life. ;) Watching your fairy tale unfold has been so inspiring and such a pleasure. You deserve it and I'm just so thrilled that I get to be a part of it. All my love!!!